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Bro cheer up....This is a wake up lesson for most of us here . Dont let our lower body controls our heart. Hope we guys can live with loneliness and stay happy.

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This is what I had been doing over the last 10 years. Being single & lonely cannot be an obstacle for a happy and peaceful life. I also had quitted Facebook 3 years ago. Life can still go on despite being lonely. Absolutely no complaints.

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Bro steinbeck. Points in this sex forum won't get u a job
although there were rumours that
u can xchange 1000 points for a Big Mac.
Point is, what matters for u now is the real world,
not the virtual one.
Bottom line: did u manage to benefit from good advice from us?
Not just the constructive ones but also the not-so-nice ones.
Even for those of us who zap u,
they r prob concern abt u cos ur still giving too much money
to yr viet wife (or is it ex-viet wife now?)

Bro I agree with the rest of the bros here.
I also think ur giving way too much.
Am not saying don give. Just give less.
U need to pull yrself together and re-build yr broken world.
I did go to yr profile & read a bit abt yr life history here & there.
You remind me of a friend, and of cos my own dark past.
You need to find a way to cheong less, like what Bro Jnudes advised.
It's ok to be alone. Find a way to transform loneliness to solitude.

True we are not saints and we will fall along the wayside led astray,
but u just have to find a way to pick yrself up again. You must.
What Bro Nonteerak advised here is true too.
Whatever does not destroy u make u stronger.

After u get a good paying job,
u can choose to give yr viet wife n kids more,
but pls give within yr means.

Bro i agree that money is impt but if the local girls u know
r interested in money only as a criteria,
then I'm sorry to say that they r not worth it.
I know many poor families that r happy, even the kids.
Anw now is not the time to look for girls anymore. Focus on career first.

I know there r advertisements everywhere
that encourage those with depression to go IMH.
I know some people actually improve in their mood swing
after taking medication.
But taking these kinds of medication (esp the stronger western drugs)
in the long run is NO GOOD.
A friend I know went into depression after a break up with a girl.
Started taking medication.
But he finally move on and stop taking it.
Now married another girl and free from drugs ever since.
Bro I study a bit of psychology last time
n read a bit on my own so trust me.
It is possible to get over yr depression w/o drugs.
Drugs should always be the last resort to 'kickstart' yr brain.
Once that happen, do not depend on it anymore.
Your mental thoughts can affect yr physical body.
Go google 'psychosomatic disorder' bro.
A lot of constructive advice & help u understand yr situation.
If u continue to think negatively abt yrself or feel suicidal,
or if u have psychological issues not resolved, like bitterness,
no amount of tranquilizer or anti-depressant can help u.

Bro like i said, u need to get out of yr screwed up state.
We all have bad days at work, so if u take 1 or 2 day MC
nobody is going to complain. We r all human n r entitle to be sick.
But if u take like one week MC, then I don't think
any company is willing to employ u.

Choose any good religion that will help u think positively,
but not the dubious cults
and I definitely advise against some mega-churches.
(Some, not all.)

Bro, u have 2 redeeming traits.
You still support parents
and u still take responsibility for yr viet wife and kids.
Kudos to u. For that, god will bless u
and the good u do shall be return unto u as karma.
As for yr relatives who refused to help,
I don't think u should depend on them to return the favour anyway bro.
Depend on yrself, and they will also have more respect for u.

Bro. Pls do not over-rate a good education.
Some of the most well-educated people I know
may be rich but anyhow spend money and
are far more damaged / uncivilised / rude / dishonest
than many low income earners, who may come from
poor background but have humble heart ...
some even kind enough to give money to others
with the little they have left.
God have eyes, he see bro.
So pls don say things like you're fucked.
Cos if ur, then i would say all of us r fucked to some extent by society.
We just have to find a way to enjoy being fucked and fucking.
I know many ppl who r more fucked than u.

The coursemates who call u anti-social or pedo,
will receive their bad karma for their unkind words.
No need bother abt them.

Some final words.

In Singapore, they say that after u reach age of 30,
if u quit, you can't find another job
as high paying as yr current one.

After u reach age of 40,
if u quit, you can't find another job. Period.

Sad but true to some extent.

It's not just u bro. All the rest of us r the same.
We no longer have what u call iron-rice bowl anymore.
Not even gahment / civil service sector.
I miss the good old days where job security and benefits
and pension are more.
Am I bitter & angry? Yes.
Do we all kill ourself? No.
I am far older than u, part-time myself,
not even sure if company want to employ me the next day
or ask me fuck off. Also learning to cope ...
If I'm alive here right now struggling to survive
I don't see why u should give up.
Hope this help bro ...

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I think so too.

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This is the reason why I choose to be single. Marriage itself is gambling. If I can pump plenty of pussies with no committment, why would I want to risk my whole dam life and money in a single pussy and marriage with no garantee of winning?

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I don't think finding a girl into your life is the main issue that we shub keep thinking whole day!!!