Commercial Sex – Some of my thoughts and reflections
 

I am considered relatively new to the cheonging scene. Till now, the number of girls I’ve bonked – countable by fingers of both hands, but more than one hand.

A description of the process
The most exciting part is where you are waiting in the room for the girl, waiting for her to appear. The sms exchanges prior to her ultimate appearance is the second most exciting part. I attribute this to the “headless” pictures you see in the threads; undoubtedly, cyberspace community has this ability to exaggerate the beauty of the people in these pictures. Next, overtaken by lust… soon, one round away. After firing off the first round, at that every instant (when my 2IC is still inside the FL’s pussy), my mind will all of a sudden “return to reality”. In short, I feel “sian”. After some fluff talking with FL, it will be time for round 2, which typically takes longer than round 1. Usually in round 2, as my mind feels “sian” after round 1, the FL would be the one doing most of the work. Similarly, after the second round if fired off, the “sian” feeling remains or intensifies. Soon, it is time to part ways.

And that’s about it.

The Girlfriend Experience a.k.a. GFE
It bewilders me why men would turn to commercial sex (KTVs included) for GFE. I think this is the root of all the sob stories you seen in the Matters of the Heart section. If I can feel myself getting more “sian” as my number of bonks go up, what more the FL who bonks so much more frequently than me? Looking for GFE in such an emotionally-hardened girl, and expecting such a relationship to bear fruit – it’s really 自取灭亡.
No matter how caring, attractive, etc. you may be to the FL, the matter of fact is because she met you in such a context (you as somebody looking for commercial sex), such a relationship will never have happy endings. Sure, they are exceptions (think: how many people on this earth can become Presidents?)

The sex trade
Although money is easy to make for these FLs, I believe there is a price for them to pay (especially if they are still single). They will find it much more difficult to immense themselves in a genuine relationship. Even when these FLs return to their homelands where nobody knows what they did here, there is still this ugly memory (of once being in this trade) which will accompany them for the rest of their lives. At the end of the day, the purpose of this trade is to earn money (lots of it in a relatively short time), and the purpose of money is mainly to satisfy material wants. But then again, material wants are there to satisfy spiritual needs. At the end of the day, is the price really worth it?

This is happening to me right now
I feeling this whole thing is getting increasingly mundane. Some of you may think it has to do with the FL involved, but it’s not. It’s more about the big picture of commercial sex actually. Feelin' this whole thing is pretty much meaningless.

I feel I’m beginning to see girls less superficially (lesser emphasis on the exterior). I have never been in a relationship (due to fear of commitment), and I’m telling myself if I ever get into one, character and personality of the girl is going to precede her looks. Dunno why I’m also telling myself to cherish my parents, whom I feel I’ve been taking for granted for these time.

Then again, I’m writing this just after a bonk, so I’m not feeling the “sperm want to reach brain” feeling. If that feeling returns...

Sorry bros if I bored you, just feel like writing out what I’m feeling at the moment.

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Bro, the fact that you've started to indulge in commercial sex means we can expect more of your thoughts to cum... and I betcha it'll get interesting when you lost count ;)

Welcome to the dark side :D

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You're only on the tip of the iceberg
Once you pass the quickie sessions, you'll get sick of it & look more more KC type comm fucks
Like wat bro goodpartner said, welcome to the darkside!

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Bro TS you think too much lao ... maybe after involved more action here You will get used of it and treat it just as some routinr of life ... enjoy and forget routine ... anyway welcome onboard:D

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TS, bonk more fls, sure you will not feel so sian when the number of bonks u have cant use two hands to count....:rolleyes: :D

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The Cheongster's life is like a Sine Wave. :D

Which goes like this:

0-5 girls -> Wah! Exciting! Must try!
6-10 girls -> Cheh! Nothing much! How people can kenna KC from this?
11-20 girls -> Hmm... tried quite a few girls... but this one really a bit diff leh...
21-25 girls -> Sigh... how come all these girls always want to cheat my feelings and money?
26-30 girls -> Wah lao eh... old tricks. Think I stupid meh?
31-35 girls -> No KC, fuck quite boring leh...
36-40 girls -> Alamak! Kena cheat feelings and money again...
41-45 girls -> Better fuck and forget...
46-50 girls -> Wah lao eh... old tricks. Think I stupid meh?
51-55 girls -> No KC, fuck quite boring leh...
56-60 girls -> Alamak! Kena cheat feelings and money again...
61-65 girls -> Better fuck and forget...
66-70 girls -> Wah lao eh... old tricks. Think I stupid meh?
71-75 girls -> No KC, fuck quite boring leh...
76-80 girls -> Alamak! Kena cheat feelings and money again...
81-85 girls -> Better fuck and forget...

Awaiting for TS to fuck enough FLs/WLs that 2 hands + 2 legs also cannot count. :p

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TS, remember to keep a spreadsheet of all women you've ever had sexual relationship with! (with ratings)

I regret not doing that from the start. :D

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Bro, can advise how to 悬崖勒马? :)

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Thanks for your advise. I'll also include how much I spend on each session.

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doubt few can really 悬崖勒马 at such early stages... only those who really have had enough liao will..
so gd luck bro

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Find a good girl and get married and stop all comm sex :D

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悬崖勒马的是将，悬崖不勒马的是王 - 马王

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Good one, BroC101

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Find a good girl - noted. Get marred - still too young :p

请恕我才疏学浅，此番话是何意? 愿听指教。:)


Haha bro, your post is hilarious yet real. So what happens beyond number 85? The curve repeats its cycle?

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Should be "Thanks for your advice".

"Advise" is a verb.

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This sounds like a familiar vicious cycle .....
Gian to Quickie to KC to Stay Away...... after a while... the cycle will repeat itself over and over again !

Is really the darkside !

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everyone loves some difference in their life....

different girls, different sex.
though its still a hole... :)

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Still a hole, but different taste, and the dick like varieties :D

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Meaningless becos it is a trade. It is buy and sell, that's all. The only problem with your thinking is that after you release, you realised that you no longer need it, then you wonder why you buy it in the first place. Furthermore, the sense of emptiness that followed is quite noticeable. You may even feel that you had just spent money to buy emptiness.

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Good one by Bro colins. You summed it all up. :D

Bro kryptonite123, IMHO, meaningless because there wasn’t any emotional connection. Sex is only GREAT when there’s an emotional connection. Just enjoy the moment with what you paid and don't connect with her emotionally. You be fine (I hope). :)

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So I was wanking away and as I was about to cum, I imagined I shot it all in your mouth and you drank all the advice/advise that shot out.

Nothing original to say, than shut your bloody cunt mouth.

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aiyoh... dun lure people to the darkside lerh...

:p

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I like to share some of my thoughts too...

I am considered relatively old to the cheonging scene. Till now, the number of girls I’ve bonked – uncountable by fingers of both hands plus toes of 3 legs, and probably more than the number of all my cock hair.

Basically, after all these commercial sex, I found myself spending more time in SBF than actually going out to bonk....

Anyone guess what's my point? :rolleyes::D
There's also a lesson for TS to learn.

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Bro are you practise it now? better than not practising ? :p

Senior, please share with us your valuable knowledge hehe :p

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Find a good girl, get marred and stop commercial sex. :p

悬崖勒马乃将才也，悬崖躍马乃王者也。

See [Romance of the 3 Kingdoms] on "Escape on Hex Mark- the Cursed Stallion" and "Battle of He Fei".

Both feature so-called 王者 running away from 将才 by jumping off cliffs on their horses while their pursuants reined in their horses. :p

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Oic. I also got read Romance of the Three Kingdoms.

"Escape on Hex Mark - Cursed Stallion" 乃刘备也.

"Battle of He Fei" 乃孙权也.

可有几位能像刘备与孙权有帝王之命，能悬崖跃马?

Besides, these two incidents are ficitional; no such thing in 三国志.

所以悬崖勒马比较好 :p

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Bro, see whether you would be 王者 or not if you have thousands of bloodthirsty armed soldiers chasing after you. :p

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hahaha, laugh until fell from the chair. :D

TS, u no need 悬崖勒马, you still haven had enough fun.:D

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i've cheonged for 2 years now, on and off, but more than fingers and toes can count. just recently i also start feeling sian. but not keen on KC though.

i've a gf and i realised commercial sex is nothing compared to the sexual moments with gf.

why TS afraid of getting gf due to commitments? if u find the right one, the commitments you will willingly and want to give de. and u are right about character traits more important (but of course looks cannot overlook too much la). your gf's looks will grow with time (i mean in the couple of years la, not 10 years later), perhaps nurtured by love.

i might just be abstaining from commercial sex from now on. but still .. massage with hj happy ending maybe still will go occasionally : p to ease the tension while overseas.