Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

Dear Bros,

Can you please help me with your advice?

You see my boss's wife (she is also the co-boss) is taking a liking to me.

For example, today (is Saturday) and she is taking me out to lunch. (of course her husband is not around today.) She just texted me to remind me.

This thing (about her affection (or am I just imagining it to be) just started only three weeks ago.

But everday she is texting me day and nite. She is very concened about me, working too hard and afraid I get sick.

For example, on a raining day, she would text me (she was not in the office then)

She : Where r u now?

Me: In the office

She: It's raining hard now, we don't want you to get sick.

(But I have never taken sick leave before).

Me: Thank you for your concern

She: You r welcome.


Oh btw, she is quite beautiful and I have been secretly thinking of her and I wank myself thinking of her every day.

What should I do? I want to have a relationship with her but am afraid to jeapordise my job. How do I make the first move without scaring her?

Please help and I promise to post my field report about her.

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

First thought that comes to my mind, maybe you thinking too much. But if you are not mistaken, don't forget the golden rule, don't play in your own backyard.

P/S - PM me your company's name and whether is has any position that needs to be filled :p

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

u dun work and shit at the same place

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

do or dont you're damn!....might as well enjoy it :)

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

Bro, not a good move to tackle your boss's wife or co-boss..... Unless you are the boss so why risk your job? Move on to another target lah

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

Bro TS, go and bonk your lady boss lah.

Soon you will become your own boss! :D

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

be careful hor, wait ur boss catch u, he pay $$$ to buy ur limbs hor, or worst kena put in a basket and throw in kallang river :eek: :eek: :D

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

Bro... You are damn right man...! Agree with you totally... :D

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

No smoke without fire....ur only live once. If she makes the move, go for it man...but make sure u can get another job elsewhere if the need arises. Keep us updated.

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

get a new job, screw her silly .. :P

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

Why don't you ask your boss' wife directly over lunch "why the attention lately?"

It could be a simple case of the boss asking her to look after you because he heard rumors about you being a head hunt candidate. Or she trying to slowly use you as a spy on the boss.

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heehee...forgone conclusion!:D

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

Are you thinking too much?
Abit of concern you wanna bonk her? Like that we got many ladies going to bonk le leh :rolleyes:
Of course if she really likes you, why must get involved with a married lady, cant you find one yourself :confused:

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

Dear bro,

Don't waste chance, screw her. She know her husband got mistress and u can become her toyboy.

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

you see if the company belong to her or the hubby.

If hers. may be you can take over as boss and wont get sack:D

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

whoa ..... so many ppl hv such dreams in their la-la land .....

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

Simple. My advice is sure fool proof.

Start finding a new job and get it secured asap. Continue flirting with her even when you are no longer with your current company. Do wwhat you want and what she wants with her.

U mentoned that she is the co-boss.. That means she owns 50% of the company. If she divorce him, she gets another 25% of the company.

To calculate it up. U are the winner. Got a new good job to have it as a new playground. And a rich fuckee sponsoring you. And you wun have to worry about her not sponsoring you in future since you got a secured job.

Bros must be thinking y I can plan until so swee right? Reason is because I have undertaken all possible precautionary measures against OC incase something like that happen.. And of cos I won't share it here. We are afterall... Businessmen/women. Have to plan in advance and ahead of each other.

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

Dun tink too much into it...
If u wan to play ard, mak sure she reali hv tat idea...
But, overall, I oso tink tat u dun eat in yr own turf.
Good Luck!! :)

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

when its comes heart & lust... make sure u decide are tackling her to satisfy ur lust or u started developing feelings for her. Be certain of wat u feel. if Lust, u hitch up any FL or pleasure satisfier @ geylang i'm sure u'll find that the Lust deteotariate... if feelings matters... go for her than confront her make sure both of u feels the same and its not infatuation... bf-gf,fiancees can break off y cant husband n wife? y stay if the feelings is no longer there? u'll be adding damage to urself... BUT IF SHE MAKE THE FIRST MOVE DURING BREAK TIME IN HER OFFICE/PANTRY just screw her and fills her needs... make sure its a gd n memorable n worthwhile fuck.... own her! never rejects a woman's sex offer as we migjt hurt their feelings by making her feels that she isnt gd enuf. We guys got our own needs so do the ladies. handle each other with care and respect and everything will be ok. May God protect u and bless ur attempts.

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

TS, either way you are fxxxed. Reject her.. she gets pissed and fire you. Screw her, her husband finds out and fire you.

So as some bros have mentioned, start looking around for another opportunity.

peace.

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

This seems the most possible among all possibilities . Anyway , if u r a girl . Then i swear that soneone is interested in u .. Cos i used to be working in hotel line .. I'm paying alot of attention / care / concern to certain staff which might be suitable to lie on my bed next to me after we knock off :) if that boss is a female as per u said .. Either u got the msg wrong , or u r damn handsome (sorry if i offend u) . Cos as u said , she's a boss .. Why would she want to jeopardise her reputation in her own company whereby she is rich (i assume) enough to go play a duckie .. I don't think she got any problem with cash :)

My 3 cents .. Cheers .

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

Do you have 30 years housing loan and 10 years car loan to pay ??

Do you have monthly bills to pay ??

If eveything is YES then do not try anything at work.

Pay some money for prostitutes or get a girlfriend.

You will feel safer and have a piece of mind.

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

Thank you all bros for your valuable advice.

I just back from lunch with her. Before I give you all adetailed account of our lunch meeting, here is a short sms conversation before we met up for lunch:

Me: Ms Sxxxx what's your favourite colour?

Her: Red

Me, I was hoping you said said red.

Her: Why?

Me: I like the colour red, especially bright red.

Her: Oh I have a little red shirt.

Me: Do you have a red bra and matching panty?

Her: Yes, why? That's quite private.

Me: Just wondering.


And bros, she came for lunch in her little red shirt, and through a small gap in the shirt, I noticed that she was wearing her red bra.

What do you think.

I am sorry, bros but the lunch was rally uneventful except that she talked about an office colleague and she told me not to tell any one about him.

She ended the episodde by saying "need to talk to the boss about him"

I went home, still thinking, she is coxing me into something? BTW, she is 32 and I am 28.

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

How badly do you need this job? Are your skills in demand (work skills, I mean)? If you can easily secure another job, then go and fuck this little bitch in heat. You might get a promotion and bonus! Use it as a stepping stone.

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Wah, either sure win or sure lose! But how true this kind of story oso got to ask hahaha! Good luck, people playing fire shoudnt scared tio burn.

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

Wait for her to bait you before you think of baiting her. :)

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

Don't make first move, wait for her to make it. If she makes very obvious hints and you want to on, get a new job first cause paper cannot cover fire, even more so in close proximity if still all working together.

Re: Advice needed - My boss's wife taking a liking to me
 

This is a case of "Ni Ching Wo Yen", so go ahead with your intention, but remember that you must be prepared to face up with any consequences that arises, even at the cost of losing a limb or an arm, literally.

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I think let us wait until she tells you she want to fuck you, then you continue your story here. Meantime, just focus on your work, please.