Don't understand women
 

Quick question here, hope someone can tell me what I'm missing.

I had sex with my gf yesterday for the 2nd time. Halfway thru I got tired and we stopped and chatted for a while. After a while I got hard again and we continued. Pulling out after ejaculation we realised the condom had slipped out during the break, when my dick got soft. Obviously this means she might get pregnant. We washed up and she seemed ok to me. I went home afterwards.

This morning I texted and asked her if getting a morning after pill might be a good way to prevent possible pregnancy. She stopped replying and has been ignoring my calls and texts the whole day. She is clearly upset at me but I don't really know what I did wrong.

I really don't understand women...the silent treatment doesn't help either.

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I think she is upset by yr words to ask her take morning pill...like trying to be irresponsible....give it a day or two till she get her thoughts right then shuld b ok..

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You don't need to understand woman, all you need is to love her.

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Means you didn't sextisfy her enough lor.

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Silent treatment is a killer. Trust me.:o

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You already got your fuck , change your number and move on ....

:D

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agree with you ts! silent treatment may hurts but you know silent treatments is a killer

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If only it he refer to a whore lol
give her a few day to cool down i believe is your reaction to this that might upset her

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http://michelehowe.files.wordpress.c...ndingwomen.jpg

save yourself. dont bother at all.

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Answer is in how you replied her over the text message. It's like saying "sorry honey, I made a grave mistake of fucking you." After you have fucked her.

The morning after pill is not necessary for you to bring it up as she will be more kan cheong than you. You just need to be man enough when the time comes.

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TS, being a woman here maybe the best advice is to go look for her personally, hug her tight and say that you don't mean it that way.

Here's a couple of safe replies:
1) You are my gf, I care about you and your body.
2) It's not that I don't want to take responsibility if anything happens, I want to plan and settle with you step by step.
3) It's my fault, I hope we can talk through this and let me know how you feel

And most importantly, two 3 little words that work magic:
"I am sorry"
"I love you"

all the best bro

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No need and why bother to understand women.
Just know how to sianz girl and bonk them will do.:D

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Well have a baby is out of the question for us at this time. Also I don't exactly have the luxury of time to give her a few days to cool down, cos by then the pill will not work.

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so many female new accounts of late...maybe this is just what this forum require.

sis, please ask your other sisssssss to join in this forum.

kum sia. :D

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i can't agree more with spiderlily, she said it best.

girls tend to keep their feelings to themselves, so when u said she seemed ok - i think she's worried sick herself. in situations like this, you definitely need to give her a lot of emotional support.. going over to her physically to comfort her definitely is an act of assurance and care.

hope all goes well!

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same girl?

http://sammyboyforum.com/showthread....225&highlight=

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You shot inside her pussy. Well.. Responsibility and accountability

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Isn't asking her to take the pill being responsible too?
I'm trying to understand why is she so upset about...we can talk about responsibility, but the conversation has to start somewhere. Giving me the silent treatment is not going anywhere.
Anyway the window for the pill has long closed, right now we're just waiting to see if we strike toto..

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I agree on the silent treatment that she shouldn't be giving it to you. Then again, my ex said it is because if she talked, bound to argue (due to differences in opinion). :rolleyes:

For me, even if we end up arguing, if it is for a good cause and to move on positively, I will adopt the agree to disagree attitude. Perhaps not talking about it immediately but must talk it over.

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Father's Day is just around the corner, same time next
year you'll be celebrating it

Happy future Father's Day :D

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Good luck in using logic when faced with an emotional issue, you're just shooting hoops with a bowling ball man. Don't seek to understand seek to comfort.

What you did made her feel insecure. She's thinking now " Does he really love me? What am I to him? Am I just a fun bag?"

Women are by nature creatures that require security. They are programmed by nature to be this way.

Set aside the "I did no wrong here mentality" when dealing with the fairer sex. It makes life much easier.

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What a coincidence, just two days before you posted this. I brought a girl to hospital to buy emergency contraceptives pill... She claimed that the guy slipped his condom inside her pussy. LOL...

Hopefully they not the same girl. :D

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It's time for the ladies to run the world. Girls do watch porn too. In fact, guys look at girls. But girls look at both guys and girls. :p

Anyway TS, hard to strike toto really. If you really care about her, just remember these:

1) Leave me alone = I need you, but im not going to admit it and I don't know how to let you in. Best to stick around and hug her tight and tell her everything's alright.

2) Im ok = Im definitely not ok, please ask more until I open up. You can try close ended questions like "are you upset at me?" "Is it something I have done?"

Most importantly, note her period dates. If it's a few days before her period, most likely it's pms and well, goodluck bro. I have friends who are ridiculous during pms but just be more sensitive and feed her with comfort or happy food.