Sex with mature men?
 

Hi all,

I am new here but i want to find out why adult married man are like that?

I am in poly now but i have a boyfriend and most of the time when we date, it usually ends up in heavy petting or sex.

It is not that i do not enjoy it but how come he is so sexually aggresive?

Doris.

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Isn't it obvious that he just wants to bed you?

He is married, and the fact that he is so sexually aggressive shows that he just wants fun.

If you are fine with it, then carrry on, otherwise, better to leave him before you get emotionally hurt.

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Hi,


I am different...

My dating activities are normally star gazing when the night sky is clear, catching some nice sea breeze, taking a slow walk in Botanic Garden, do some read ups in my neighbourhood library, sipping coffee at a roadside cafe, shopping, watching nice movies, hangout at a good night spot for ice cold beer and follow by checking into my favourite Hotel with the girl..

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Doris,

Most men like all male animals are interested in sex all the time. It's a natural instinct to ensure survival of the species. Even occurs in plants, like there'll be a profusion of flowers (and resultant seeds) before it dies.

Luckily (and this is also a natural instinct) for everyone sex is thoroughly pleasurable so both males and females enjoy themselves. Women may 'hold out' because of straitlaced upbringing, cultural practice, religious teachings and for personal profit.

Enjoy it while and whenever you and your married friend can.

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Not only adult married man are like that. Infact, almost all men are like that:D

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hi doris....

if dun make love then do wat?...shopping?..eating?..waste time right?
just go on bed n have fun..that is the most satisfying wat

y worry so much..just enjoy n intro your other poly girls to him or us la... life is short...enjoy as long as we can....wait till u become 50 years old...give also no one want..correct?

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[QUOTE=Doris;4357620]Hi all,

I am new here but i want to find out why adult married man are like that?

I am in poly now but i have a boyfriend and most of the time when we date, it usually ends up in heavy petting or sex.

It is not that i do not enjoy it but how come he is so sexually aggresive?

Doris.[/Q

Sex is just like building a beautiful castle and you need good experience and creativity to create a special one.

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Dear sis, there's always dessert at the end:)
Sometimes it can be the first course too.

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Bro old_yet_horny, you very romantic. :) you forgot to mentioned: listen to the little tiny raindrops falling, splashing on the window pane, lots of tiny raindrops falling, 1 drop, 2 drops, hear them fall, so many you can't count them all and have to drop our clothes to count. :D

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ur bf is a married man... so what kind of future do you wanna have wif him except having regular sex? if i am married and i have a "gf", of coz tat is what i do, as all other guys do. well so far for my bluntness but its true...

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Hehehe...nice nice..

If its raining.. I can't wait till the clothes drop.. I'll just pull the undies 1 side and start making lovelike a Rabbit on Viagra..:D

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hi sister, Consider yourself lucky! your man got strong urge and sensitive nerve and thats natural . Life is short do please enjoy your time with him.

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Hey you guys are real bad :mad: a SYT got a problem (though i think is not really a problem), you guys should be give her some positive feedback mah :rolleyes:

OK TS,

Put it this way, it is nothing to do with married or not lah...

It is more like - you are so beautiful & sexy that this older bf of yours, cannot tahan not to think sexually everytime he see you hor :D

But if you choose me instead, dont worry me sure wont like this one (me old until can the most once a fortnight neh - sh.....sh...... somemore may need the blue little pill) :o



Anyway guess you may need grow up a bit, so to brave brave communicate your thoughts to him as well. take care sis ....

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Married man taking a bite outside of marriage can only highlight marital problems.

Perhaps the aggressiveness in his sexual advancement towards you is what is lacking in his marital relationship. You could have given him an avenue to express his sexual desire which he cannot get from his wife.