Husband No 4
 

Would you marry your gf who's been married 3 times and has 3 children from 2 from husband 2 and 1 from husband 3?

Re: Husband No 4
 

Depend. If really suit, who cares right?

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Why not if u really love her and if u guys really can see a future together.

Question is, would u be able to care for and nurture them kids like your own?

cheers!!!
Atro

Re: Husband No 4
 

Buy 1 get 4 wohh ?? U sure u or ur fren want this ?

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erm...me wun...
not becos she already got kids...
but if she getting in and out of relationships...
wat makes u tink she'll stay wif you...

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I'm surprised she still believes in happily ever after (marriage) after 3 divorces. Imagine the guests (on her side) laughing secretly at you at your wedding. '1st time, my red packet was always market rate, it was $60, then $80, then $100 and now $120. Maybe need to give $140 in future... Haha.' 'Wanna bet this one will last how long? 1 year? 2? 3? What... who bet 6 months?'

You do know about the women's charter right? She should still be getting alimony from husband 2 and 3 right? If you divorce her without a child, you may need to pay her till she finds sucker no. 5. Is she a scheming person or does she appear simple-minded to you? Simple-minded girls (outlook) then to be the most dangerous con-woman.

If you really love her, the marriage cert is just a piece of paper. Why get so much over potential trouble hanging over you just in the name of love? Be a bf-gf forever lor... Her kids will always call you uncle and not father anyway.

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Love is blind..hard to tell you the answer..

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Bro Xgenre, dunno why I very agree to your every words here. Great man!

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it is a NO for me. :D

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Personally (just talking for myself, others may think otherwise), I will not consider divorced women with kids. No kids is ok.... Just my personal preference....:)

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If you really love her, the marriage cert is just a piece of paper. Why get so much over potential trouble hanging over you just in the name of love? Be a bf-gf forever lor... Her kids will always call you uncle and not father anyway.[/QUOTE]

i too fully agreed with these, since she has already been married for three times, why bother to sign on the fourth one, so long both of u keep the relation and live happily thereafter.

BTW, can u ,( bro TS ), afford to bring up the 3 kids, they will be your burden once you are their step-dad, its not easy nowadays.

just my thought bro TS, no hard feeling

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I'm a very direct person. Harsh it may be but I really meant well for TS. Gains me no joy to suan him or watch him suffer right?

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I won't. From what I've seen, women after one divorce come out jaded; with loads of baggage; and, spiteful. By the second divorce, they have already given up hope on men. By the third, they have become really 'hardened' and in my opinion, would be ready to enlist in either the Delta Force or the SAS. I know I am generalising over here quite a bit, but anyone willing to take the plunge the fourth time needs to go for a serious psychiatric evaluation first. The highest number of divorces experienced by anyone in my group of friends: 4 times by a caucasian lady friend.

With regards to the kids bit, you got to be prepared to have several guys (fathers) turning up at your doorstep every weekend (or whatever is the arrangement) for access to the kids as ordered by the Courts.

All the best.

Re: Husband No 4
 

so cumfusing leh, there are so many papayas to pick from...

Short term - can consider
Long term - I go fly kite

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Hello TS,
May I asked how many times have YOU married & divorce before ?

Since she had so much experience, I believe this lady already immune liaoz. So, in the future, should there be any minor quarrel or unhappiness, she will have no qualm about divorcing.

When i married my wife some 16 years ago, i told her that no matter how serious our quarrel may be, we will NOT mention the "D" word.

"The best marriage is when a deaf man married to a blind woman"