GF Suspicion
 

i happen to took a foto of a gal n my gf happen to see it in my phone...sigh...
after 2 mths stil toking about it...double sigh...

i write to ask bro any way to dispel gf suspicion or make her see that only she matter to me...
gals are so.....hard to please

how to rebuild confidence sia:(

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haha, what's yours as compared to my situation? my wife saw "XXX" rated pics of my pics with my fb in my mobile n fb is somebody she knows. luckily i deleted it before she downloaded them to her hp. it has been about 3 months since she saw it, n other than hating my fb (anyway ex-fb for now) and occasional grumbling, we are still working out fine.

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Why bother?:rolleyes: If she's behaving like a bitch now, imagine what life will be like later on. :eek:

Just dump her and start afresh with some chick who's easy going and less of a control freak.

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u mus have s/tin yo wife see in u
care to share yo secret of success:D

ya..but feelings are hard to deny...
aren't all girls control freak
my previous gf even worse den that
ask her fren to pose as caller...:mad:

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NOt that me a male chauvinism but face the fact .... "God" or whatever is it created man to conquer woman.

In general, women love to be conquered, it is inside their blood ... therefore the more you wanted to please her, the more she make it hard for you to please :eek:

So :rolleyes: SHOW HER who's the boss, nevertheless once a while throw in some romantic spices - cook it well. :) SHE will be one trying to rebuild the confidence ... instead of you.


Which me believe bro sun814 ... already mastered .. Wahahaa :D

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Girls only gain control if they are allowed to by weak willed men.

Your response to her objections regarding images of another girl on your phone should be "It's my phone and I can jolly well take pictures of whoever I want! If you can't accept that, it's YOUR problem, not mine."

That way, they'll soon realise who calls the shots and they'll respect you that much more for it.

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i m definitely not the boss at home, but my wife is. the thing is after the incident, she realised that she is not able to satisfy me in the bed becos of her low sex drive (use to make love to her only once a week). now she is now trying very hard to improve on that by taking some chinese medication n our sex life hv improved tremendously (from once to at least three times a week). of course the need to give constant assurance that she is only person i love is also very important. oh, btw maybe the fact that she is a PRC not a local is another factor (cultural upbringing)

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unless the photo has your face or your cock fucking her, you can always say one of you dirty man friend send to you....

I did that... even create a situation whereby my wife know that guy and that guy has similar photo in his handphone...

No problem at all

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by the way... so many macho man here.... me small man... my wife is the boss of the house...

but I am the one that wins all in the end. a looser on appearance... but always checkmate when comes to strategy...

and always call her boss.... ha ha ha... boss also means "its not my job to bring home vegetable money".... so more money for fucking outside...

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TS - U got a good gf, treasure her. The pic of another gal must have totally affected her so much that she can still talk about it after 2 months. You must have mean alot to her and she is afraid of losing you. Just delete that gal's pic and tell her you took for fun only. If you are serious in 'repenting', make sure u dun do it again or be more 'seng mok' next time and make sure she dun see such pics again in future.
Remedy: Take lots of pics of her instead and put as wallpaper on your HP. she should be very happy for at least the next 3 months.

BTW, sometimes i do see some random pics of gals on my hubby hp as well. I hate to pick a fight and got no stamina to nag at him. Our big bro is right, HP belongs to him, he can take / keep whatever pics he like. Sometimes if i wanna find trouble, I just say, wah lau! How come ur taste getting from bad to worse these days?! The gals pics you have all CMI! Then i start to Zi pai with his Hp and dun allow him to delete my pics.

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i deleted and i try taking alot photo of her but she camera shy.....
dunno she afraid losing me or jus .....
girls...sigh...

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If she is that affected by it to still be talking about it after 2 months, she would have taken more drastic action eg. asking for a temporary break or even a proper break.

Your gf reminds me of my ex. Passive aggressive, always trying to make you feel like the bad guy, to make you feel guilty. Can't stand these kind of girls. Then whenever there's any argument will dig up everything and try to guilt you into submission.

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your gf has some obsessively controlling issues is not going to be happy with anything you do or say unless its what she told you to do. if you see this as a problem, which i would, dump her and find a nicer girl. She will either grow up and learn to compromise or she will just be a b i t c h all of her life and never be happy. either way, its not your fault for her happiness.we are each responsible for making our happiness for ourselves...

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hi bro makemecum, I am curious as to the reasons that you gave to your gf for having that photo in your phone. Actually I feel that you already got the solution to this problem. All you need to do is to think on the ways to make your gf feel only she matters to you in your life. Dispelling the suspicion is quite useless, she'll only feel that you are trying to wiggle yourself out from the mistake you 'made'.

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Then you offer to take the pic together with her lah!

If she still talk about it for the next few months and you think she is your wifey type, treatment is available at LV, Gucci and Chanel. Result: Permanent memory loss.