Man With Chee Hong Syndrome
 

Every man is dirty minded and will not hesitate to "steal eat" given the kind of conducive situation and environment.

However if you observed carefully in your office and work place, I am pretty sure you will be noticing that very often some (but not all) man tends to show this "Chee Hong Syndrome" when comes to helping their colleagues in work. Guys who approach these type of Chee Hong" man for help most often than not got their idea shot down or being offered very little assistant instead. Whereas when a woman approach them or in most cases don't even need to ask for help, those "Chee Hong" type of man will automatically offer their help them without asking.

No doubt sex sells in this real world. The more I see such things going on in my work place, I've began to despised their "Chee Hong" behavior and have the urge to tell them straight in their face how "Chee Hong" they are. However I've kept holding back those words as I knew that once I spilled the beans out onto their face, we can no longer be colleagues anymore.

What do you feels about this kind of "Chee Hong Syndrome"?

Re: Man With Chee Hong Syndrome
 

The best way to deal with it is to get used to it. :)

Re: Man With Chee Hong Syndrome
 

rule of the game:

if you find your buddy / bro is Chee Hong, then you cannot trust this person with anything in life.

Re: Man With Chee Hong Syndrome
 

This golden rule is absolutely true.
One of my chee hong colleague cannot keep secret. He likes to talk alot and thought he is the greatest joker in the office. He will never fail to act like a message boy. I found out that whatever I told him during lunch time, he will end up telling it to a female colleague. I have stopped sharing with him about my personal things and only talk about work with him. He will used whatever I shared with him to please those female colleague.

Re: Man With Chee Hong Syndrome
 

this type is really called chee hong kia...ball-less gutless guy who put men to shame...

Re: Man With Chee Hong Syndrome
 

So, your friend is just a repeater. They repeat almost anything including noise.:D

Anyway, there are tons of funny characters in this tiny world. You will not have all the energy to deal with them. So, take it easy. Let him be your daily entertainment. Maybe that will be a better way to look at it.

Re: Man With Chee Hong Syndrome
 

its called white knight

Re: Man With Chee Hong Syndrome
 

either don't communicate much with them or just talk about work.
every work place have these type of guys so spot them out fast so as to be aware of such idiots.

Re: Man With Chee Hong Syndrome
 

I've a colleague who is like that too, and he enjoys giving the ladies that kind of 色眯眯的眼神 that disgusts them. But because he is one of the top performers in the company, everyone has to endure him... :rolleyes: