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Originally Posted by fishingman
Looks like the girl has become like a pet to u  |
More or less yes.i treat my pet well tho,hehehe...The least i would try my best do is to make my girl feel comfortable with me. Some time i'd feel the girl is more at ease when i'm out. She can catch a breathe and feel less tense up this way.Even when she is alone in my room at times,she has my other room key to "roam" in and out of it if she chose,with some money to eat,drink etc as i always tell her the approx. time i will be back. Tell her where i go and offer to ask her along which she will 99% decline. Connect comp on the 40 inch LCD TV for her to surf net or play games to keep her from getting bored when i am out.
In case you haven't read my previous previous postings,I also stay in same room,same hotel almost all the time. Got a hidden-self-built safe,surveillance cam just outside room and access to hotel network.I stayed in a "special" room which can be convert into a mini discotheque or KTV at will,hehehe...and I have peace of mind whenever i am out.
The girl happy,i happy.
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Originally Posted by cashprice
Impressive Buddhist Temple,perhaps will follow yr trail in my nxt Family Batam Visit.
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I receive a few enquiry PM on organising group outings for Day Trip over the last few days. I really not sure how to reply them. My tour trips are really pretty simple :
1. Plan beforehand where i want to go
2. Draw out a budget
3. Grab a reliable hotel with English speaking receptionist
4. Enquire with Hotel on the place i wish to go
5. Get the Hotel receptionist to give me draw down plan on the place i wish to visit
6. Make an appointment of the timing to go and then just go.
The girls i book can either come after i return or before i make the tour becos late booking means lesser stock or no stock to choose from. Of course if with family then no need booking girls. Just avoid tourist trap area and avoid going to book girls/eat at tourist trap restaurants with taxi drivers.
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Originally Posted by fishingman
Spoiling for the rest? No bro,u misunderstand...more like treating the girl like an "animal" to be precise. U see before,how an animal would react when it sees a human for first time? Or how human would react when they see a animal for first time?Making his animal feel comfortable with him with no spoiling the market element unlike those who over-pay a lot,over-tip a lot,buy gifts in shopping is treating like pet.
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It all boils down to how well a cheongster can break the ice with his girls. And each technique used is different when done by different people. Not forgetting the language barrier challenge for me. I just do it differently without upping the cost so as not to spoil the $$$ market. i also say this in my previous posting,when one think he treating the girl well,the girl whom he feels he treated well may feel she is in torment.
That reminds me of my Japanese customer who share with me before that her HQ company in Japan out of good intention send a truckload of Gifts from overseas to their Northern China Chinese workers in their Japan factory during CNY,which in turn makes the Chinese workers very angry. Well,her boss after holding a management meeting decide to give the 100+ workers some fairly expensive Alarm Clock and 4 pears each during CNY.
In Chinese culture giving clocks to someone signifies sending one to his/her final death. Giving pears means hopefully the receiver's family/frens will breaks up. And the number 4 is not an auspicious number or a good sign,more so when it is during CNY. So what i am saying here is while one may have every good intention to treat a person well,but when one lacks the understanding of the receiver's culture and brought up,the good intention may end up becoming like a curse or nightmare.
Hope you understand what i am saying and sorry for being long winded....again.