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Originally Posted by pting
Hi sory for posting this personal view, maybe not entire true for most ppl but true story. I have friend who was deprived of sex becoz his wife put many time at work and do not like to make love so much.
when my friend meet a viet girl (non-WL), she being very nice like peel prawn shell for him to feed him eat. Best of all the night they slept together, she gave him the best sex he wanted so much. He take it as Viet girl love him and willing to please man so much which singapore girls not willing.
I guess sometimes it could be reason why singapore man like viet girls so much. They do what sg girls not willing.
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There's always some trade off for everything. Viet gals do things that Singapore gals don't do and is willing to give lots of sex, but they are also wanting lots of money for their family and is not able to contribute to family income. Singapore gals, on the other hand, is always tied up with work, but they can earn money and contribute to the well being of the family. Their family also do not have much demands.
That's the reason why Sg man who married Viet gals are generally much poorer than the average Singaporean couple. A normal Singaporean couple with degree stays in condo and drives while a Singaporean man (with degree) with a viet wife is either renting house , staying in 3 or 4 room flat or just staying with parents. Not to mention those without degrees. Double income without much commitments is always very much better than single income with lots of commitments.
I have personally gone thru this and i can relate well. I am with postgraduate degree but my viet spouse is lowly educated. But the circumstances i was in was very much different from the rest. i started off in HCMC and was there during the time when property and stock markets were booming. Although my wife's family wants money from me, but they do not want so much and i am really stingy towards them. After i came back to Singapore, Singapore's property market was booming too. So i am lucky to have gone thru these bull runs. If not, i will be just as bad as the rest. My wife has also realised that she must place her kids interest before her family and she acknowledges her family is pure lazy.
So its up to the Singaporean man. If you choose sex with lots of commitments, then good luck to you. You never try you never know how life is with just single income and lots of commitments.