[postmortem]

Bro Notary,

I would really like to thank you for your insightful post. If cheongsters can learn from what you have posted, they will really save themselves a ton of money and heartache. Even more so if they already have families and children.

That fucker Sam Leong (sammyboyfor) really hit me in the face that day. Said I was "obviously an insecure person".

But then, he said it 100% correct. Why i fall in love with FLs and escorts? Why did I pursue a relationship with them when I knew how much it would cost me emotionally, mentally, financially, and even socially?

i think if each of us cheongsters can find that sense of security and confidence, we won't need to pander to the emotional side at the expense of everything we worked hard to achieve in life. We can fuck and forget. Treat whores like whores and nothing more.

Boss Sam is right. Doesn't matter if she is a Geylang broad, FL, or social escort. She is a whore. That's something we cheongsters must never forget.

Feelings, emotions, lust, sexual desire must be placed in their proper compartments. A pretty 18 year old FL can make you feel so shiok until you think nothing else in the world matters, but if you lose your mind over her, you will end up losing your money, your emotional well-being, your social life, your productive life, etc.

Is it worth it?

It doesn't matter if you want to have dinner dates with your escorts, or if you want to keep a sugar baby from time to time. As long as you have 100% control if each encounter. As long as you compartmentalize them properly and don't let them spill into your real life -- your real life being your family, your work, your career, and your social and emotional well-being.

That's the lesson I learnt the hard way.

After 2 decades of fucking whores, having dinner dates and keeping sugarbabes.