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1. How much is the maximum amt you are willing to fork out for your first experience?

2. How choosy are you with your ladies?

If i were you, i would go club and land a ONS. Clubbing is ideal because you don't need to speak much with loud music in the background.

So you just dance, hopefully you dress smartly, look presentable, and prepared some dance moves.

Make eye contact, smile, while still dancing, get closer and start mirroring her dance style. If shes with a guy and they seem close, just move on. If shes with her lady friends and doesnt have a ring on her wedding ring finger(fourth from the thumb), its fair game.

She will grind into you/make eyes at your/smile at you, all indications shes interested. If she speaks to you, it will be close to your ear, which is very intimate. Or you can do the same to her.

Whatever follows really depends on chemistry, being yourself and going with the flow.

Just don't grab her at the wrong places, at the wrong time, like her breasts, legs/thigh, butt(its usually ok to hold her waist but not her butt especially if shes grinding u).

You should only touch her hands, arm, small of her back and finally chin/back of her head when you kiss her. The rest you leave alone, until you kiss her. Why? Because anything else and she will feel like shes being molested.

For courage and to loosen up while you dance, drink a little. If you drink too much it affects your "performance" later in bed.

Thats the basics, the rest you should experience for yourself and improvise to see what works. I don't advice trying any pickup techniques and what not, just keep it simple, be yourself and take it easy(be cool).

Dancing with your guy friends is ok for the start, but you should really move about and check out the crowd. Friends are great for that gap inbetween dances where you're taking a break and having a drink, don't want to seem like an anti social unless you're really confident.

If you get bored, and find no game, its time to hop on to the next club.