Lol. U know the post above me is only teasing you right?
Jokes aside, can i suggest an option? Dont need to listen if this is not an option or not good advice
My suggestion is for you to seperate your emotion related to loving your wife, from emotion arousing from intercourse with other women. you can carry on a healthy sex life while keeping your family life in one piece. Just dont bring it back home and compare the emotions or feeling. Making tension for your big head and your small head. In the end, both heads are stressed. One is love. One is lust or healthy physical needs, since your wife will be stress if you insist she have sex at this stage. It is like hobbies. Just becos one partner enjoys playing golf while the other partner prefers to baking cakes. No need to force right, since both of you have come this far in building the marriage together.