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Originally Posted by stiffness
I'm really torn by this trend.. This forum is supposed to be about MLs not FLs but increasingly either MLs offer both massage or FJ services.
My main concern is if this continues. Then what's the diff between this forum on MLs and FL2?
mariosuper's FR is a great read, and i'll just let this slide but I think if this thread has too many FJ FRs then maybe need to put a stop to it? The people who frequent this thread, like me, are not here for FJs. There's another forum for that - FL2.
Thoughts?
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I would second TS's view here. MRs not FRs.
I think if a ML wants to advertise that she does BJ/BBBJ/FJ (at a higher cost usually), she would indicate so in her ad with OKT. If she puts it there, all clear for ppl to see. If you wanna alert ppl she does that in a separate ad I think it's fine to just say that and end of story, but spare us the details, I think people here no need to know as most are here mostly for massage and some hanky panky. We don't need to know how song you are, how many positions you tried, how tight is it etc...
But, if it's not stated in the service, I still think it's best not to mention. It's not because we have a "goddess" image of our fav MLs that they never have sex with others (I think most of us are not dumb, the girls here are not virgins. We all know that they are probably more experienced than most of us here). It's because there's always a reason why it's not mentioned as part of their service. And as fellow humans, I think it's only right we just respect that. Simple as that.
If she wants to provide to you, off-menu (FOC or charged) it is a dealing between the two of you. The rest need not know.
You may think nothing of it, but by mentioning sometimes you are giving false hopes to some lurkers out there who find it extremely exciting to have FJ with a ML somehow. Even though they know there are FLs out there who can give them what they want. Even though for that same price or slightly more than that they may have to pay, they can get a proper good clean TCM massage outside for 1 hour plus a FJ with a chio FL for 1 hour (total 2 hours).
And these lurkers here can be quite dangerous and spoil the fun of the masses who just want simple massage and some fun. Some may destroy the livelihood of MLs with whom you enjoy the company with. Some of your favorite MLs may be so sick of all the shit and go back home country early. Some bros may get scared of all the things that may happen and can't enjoy their sessions feeling safe (even if it's somewhat "legal" to visit MLs, who is not scared/frustrated if some ML received high profile attention and gets visited by the men in blue when you having your tryst with your ML). Some even better, cannot get what they want decide to spread rumours and let everyone come and disturb the MLs every now and then to ask if they provide full service. So every time you mention about the "extras", you are not doing yourself a favor. In fact you may reap your "rewards" next time when the scene is all messed up by these lurkers.
My main wish here would be just keep the ML scene safer and fun. Keep it simple, play by the rules here, I think everyone can be happier.