Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior
I know the feeling. my wife knows nothing about me. she doesn't know where I go, what I do, problems I have.
tried years ago talking to her, I do love to communicate, but it was always talking to myself and her not listening. So I stopped.
If anyone thinks that a FB or Gf or third party will solve the issue, it wouldn't. You will be in the same shit again.
Something about women once they condition themselves, to have that response towards a person, they hardly if even go back. Self reflection and change in marriage or relationship is not their strong suit
was watching some old videos, that back in the day, the older women wouldn't let the younger daughter in laws, eat full, sit down, kept them busy, hardworking, busy. I wonder why they made younger women go through so much hardship. Of course, we are not in that age anymore, and as a china PRC said to me, women used to do everything, men were the king, now women want everything and men become the slave.
20 years ago women said they are incredible, they multi-task. They can hold down full time jobs, take care of the house, take care of the family, take care of their man. And yes, there was a time it was so.
Most women today cant cook cant clean, have strong opinions, they don't take care of their men. Men on the other hand can cook, clean, take care of themselves, but have allowed the lady so much room and respect, that its no longer 50/50. I believe men only have 20-30% of the say these days, if any.
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