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I think it’s partly sway heng also....our individual experiences will shape our views.
I find ATBs to be calculative and scheming....their SOP is nearly always the same....shower you with the initial affection....and then some Mother Father Sister Aunty etc will be very sick and they need $ urgently etc
I feel VNBs to be a lot more straight forward with their feelings and thoughts....yes they also want $ from you but there’s less second guessing with them.
Strictly my own views only