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Originally Posted by xterm8
Recently I was dumped by my ex GF (of 18 months). Wonder if there any samsters advice on how to get her back. What are your experience here ?  |
At this point it's really a mind game. Whoever comes out of the breakup stronger and more independent would seem more desirable.
Take a week or two to feel like shit, then get yourself together. Get out, go running / swimming, learn something new, take a trip, go get laid. Gain confidence again. You want girls to look at you and see a trophy, not a needy guy.
Also figure out why she dumped you. a monthly meet up is not a basis of a healthy romantic relationship. if you can't address those issues, then no point getting back together again for more pain.
Have a plentiful mindset ala "many fish in the sea". Don't get hung up over her even if you actually want her back. If you're too hung up, she'll feel the needy vibe and you'll just seem desperate.