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Originally Posted by Torres_Mok
Sorry to ask u a personal question! did ur parents know that u r sending back money to ur in-laws. did ur parents object to this!
Recently a friend of mine hv married a china gal and he had to take care of his in-laws and also hv to sponsor his brother-in-laws study fees. My friend's parents keep complaint to me and told me it is better to marry a sporean gal. But for me i prefer a foreign gal, preferable from vietnam. Need advice  |
Yes. My parents know that i am sending money to my in-laws and they object to it. But i am a grown up and i need to decide matters by myself. I always do this simple comparison between Vietnamese Gal and Singaporean Gal. (Bros, pls note that this is my personal opinion and does not sterotype anybody)
(1)Self-Sufficient Capabilities
Singaporean gals are surely much stronger in this area. They are better educated and can find a better job that pays more. Self Sufficient in more ways than one. Can even share family burden with you. Vietnamese gals, on the other hand, are not self sufficient. They need the husband to take care of them and even their families back home in Vietnam. NORMAL vietnamese gal score badly on this. (pls take note, i refer to NORMAL vietnamese gals, not the RICH ones)
(2) Demands
Singaporean gals, having seen more and better educated, will surely demand more in material needs than Vietnamese gals.
If you buy a normal hand bag for your singaporean gal, she will kick up a fuss as she wants branded ones. Vietnamese gals are different. A normal hand bag will mean a lot to them already. The same goes for clothings. THIS FASHION clothes will be more than enuff for Vietnamese gals, while Singaporean gals will find THIS FASHION low class.
Vietnamese gals will feel good even if you ride a motorbike, but Singaporean gals will demand that you drive a NEW BMW.
Normal hawker centres will be good for Vietnamese gals, but will be low class and smelly for Singaporean gals....
The lists goes on and on ..........
(3) Marriage
Vietnamese gals are more traditional and place more emphasis in making the husband happy. A massage on the shoulders after a hard day's work may be normal for vietnamese wife to provide for their husbands, but will be degrading for Singaporean ladies. Instead, Singaporean ladies demand their husbands do the massage for them. Vietnamese gals take the time to prepare dishes for the family, while the Singaporean gal chooses to eat out. Excuses given by Singaporean gals is that they work, so no time to cook. But they also don't cook when they go on 2 weeks leave at the end of the year. They will cite the excuse of being lazy.
For normal Singaporean lady, divorce is just about signing on the papers when you cannot get along well with your spouse. Under much western influence, its just like another way of life for the modern lady. For vietnamese ladies, divorce is the last resort. They will try first and give their spouse chances before giving up.
The list goes on and on... never ending list. So u decide by yourself on what matters most to u in a marriage
