[Marq]

Different people different believes I suppose. I think coming out her to visit MLs/FLs, is like a getaway, where you get pampered. How many people’s wife/gf will pamper us like MLs/FLs do? So as long as you don’t shift that expectation to your partner, I think its fine.

Hey, it could even help you maintain balance in your relationship with your partner where there are things you can’t get. Draw the line, stay there and be a fulfilled individual with fulfillment from different sources, and its all good