Thread: Wife or Helper?
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Old 04-06-2019, 11:09 PM
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Re: Wife or Helper?

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Originally Posted by lipe View Post
Could it be the other partner comes from a family with maid/helper?

It boils down to their up bringing. If the his/her family has maid/helper, then their tendency is to let other do the work.

My brother-in-law, since childhood, mother bring his plain water whenever he asked for it. When he married, his wife do the same. Until today have not seen him lifting his hands to get water or wash the cups.

Perhaps TS'husband is like the above.
Yup, you are right. His mom did everything for him and now his mentality is I have to do it for him, just like his mother. But I've already made it clear to him that I refused to do everything while he laze at the sofa surfing Facebook.