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Back to the topic of understand Vietnamese Life Partner...

Why is it that someViet gals are so caring and always worry about parents and siblings, they also dun want the family to worry about them? But there are some Viet girls who simply don't care...only play and play and take advantage of a caring sister..

I share with bro about my viet g/f story... she care so much for her family that i think she is suffering in silence. sometime she tells me she feel very tired living...This is what she tells me...and i believe her...

1) In 2002 family need money, she go HCM to work and send money back... that time work in massage parlour, can earn many money. Mid 2006 come sillypore work in jc (this is where i know her), got caught and cannot come already. Now she work as salesgirl and earn little, yet borrow money (good friends willing to help her) to send back more than what she earn. She dun want to let parents know that she earn little as they are old. She always wish that she can give more $ to family... but seems like no 'good' job in VN her to earn alot... only ktv, massage and pro can earn alot more.

2) This year her elder sis business (saloon) failed and need money to pay friend who her sis borrowed money. She and her father sold away the house bought by her previous american b/f in HCM, Q8 to pay her sis debt. Now most of the family members stay at relative/friend house in Mekong.

3) Her younger sis took advantage of her when she borrow her motor. Her sis sold it to buy drugs and go disco. But my g/f never complain to parents. She say she love her sis, so never want to tell... she would rather let her parents scold her than her sis. She did think of going back to work in massage parlour again so that she can buy motor and give more money... but knows that her father and myself don't like and don't allow. she put off the idea..