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Originally Posted by Kopiosteve
I'm an everyday guy since 15yo lol.
Aiya try to forget all this emo stuff la. Get a normal girl if you're looking for someone to connect emotionally.
I know it's not easy. I myself sometimes also falter a little against my own preaching. And it doesn't help that SG girls aren't as appealing and engaging, both physically and mentally.
Be happy we had the pleasure of their company. The trick for me is to find a substitution with another target BEFORE my beloved ML leaves. It lessens the blow. Sometimes it even eradicates the loss, because the substitute might turn out even better.
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Finding a substitute really does soften the blow significantly. I found a substitute in TB when Angel left and like what you said, the substitute turned out even better than the original (at least that’s what I feel) lol.
The problem now is that I’m thinking of going on a hiatus after TB leaves so looking for a substitute would go against my original plan hahaha. I guess I should just visit TB a few more times and enjoy my sessions with her while she’s still around. Then when she finally leaves I’ll just have to emo for a few days... I’m sure I’ll be fine after a short while.
After all like what many of you always say, this is all a transactional relationship. No point getting too emotional over it also hahah