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Many of us will use "sob"story to gain a girl's sympathy.

We will, through chit chat, find out what is behind your thinking, likes/dislikes etc. This to make you feel like soul mate and have same areas of interest.

Eventually, it is to make you take off your pants.

Unless it is genuine mutual feelings, you can see that after a few trysts together, he may lost interest in you.

Originally Posted by Blackenrose

I'd an admiration of a couple, whom I know them both for quite some time. Wife is very pretty, career wise very successful in senior management position, husband was doing alright. Usually the husband takes care of the kids, opens the door for his wife when she alights from the car, nice guy type.

During recent, he asked his parent to help take care of the kids, and happened that we started to exchange some whatsapp messages. His wife works late everyday, so one occasion, I was surprised that he asked me out for dinner with him. From there, realised that he hides a lot of his grievances, and was like putting up a 'fake self' in front of his wife just to keep her happy. We kept this up for a while, and he confessed that he was having a crush on me, and for me..well I do have a soft spot for him as well, but at the same time, I just kinda felt I'd 'won' him over from his wife, who is, in most ways are better than me. Just last month, instead of dinner he initiated that we share some intimate moments together, which I also obliged. Sex was ok, as the sessions were short as of now, but he told me he really felt like himself while we were together, and I just felt satisfied that I did much better than what his wife could.

What was unexpected was what it seem a good marriage could have so much issues within making such strays to be committed even by such a nice guy.