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Originally Posted by KongXU
i know we can nego the price but i am the kind of person that is either i take it or i leave it. and i think the LT part i have to clarify abit, maybe its because that time when we were talking about it, it was like 9pm ish so she said ard 6hrs.
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Thanks for your comprehensive sharing of your thai trip. I'm sure many bros after you would benefit from the positive and negative experiences shared.
I used to have the same mentality as you when i was a newbie chiongster - just accept the price the lady offer as negotiating may cause the mood to turn sour and mean a bad session. I think this is true only if you are lowballing her...ie offer a price below market rate. In this case, you aren't doing that and you are also letting her know you are not a carrothead.
Even if i negotiate that 1k off the agreed price, it doesn't mean i would not give her 7k at end of session. At least that 1k is now tips to her for her good service as compared to paying her an inflated rate for mediocre service. A FL previously asked why i bothered to negotiate price when i was going to pay her the original rate. I casually told her i gave her more because she deserved it, and not because she asked for it. She's been a regular meet up since then and never quoted me ever for our time together, leaving me to decide how much to "tip" her after each session.
It's all a game in this P2P world. So sometimes need to play psychological games with the ladies.