I’ve been regularly visiting Shenzhen over the years and here’s my sharing on the spa scene.
These are upper mid to high end huge spas near Futian/Lohu that are legit with huge facilities for hundreds of people, with food/drinks/games/relax areas w/ big couches/saunas/everything. You can get massages in the open hall area with big couches, or in the private rooms. The “technicians” are classified into masseurs or "beauticians" that are pretty girls in their 20s giving head/neck/hand massages in heels and skirts. Families w/ kids, couples, and everyone comes here. I don't know why they think that's family friendly, but I'm not complaining. The hottest girls I've seen in Shenzhen are these beauticians, but they don't offer anything extra publicly. It's possible to get their Wechat for private meeting, but I haven't tried and it’ll likely be costly.
You can choose your masseuse on the monitor, but the photos are usually heavily edited. you can generally negotiate with the masseuses for a happy ending. They'll negotiate a tip of about RMB200-300 for HJ.if you are new, she may ask for 500-1000 but pls politely say no. They are usually polite and will not give a black face. Do not over pay and if she does not agree, pick another lady after the session and you will likely get better response. In the private rooms,I was able to reach under their blouse and feel up their tits and one let me play between her legs. However, it's still breaking the rules and they're really cautious about it. The room has a small window that if someone really wanted to check they can see you doing the business. HJ only, no way to get anything more here.
The one I frequently visit is 黄金海岸 (Gold Coast) at Lohu.
Haven't been back to Gold coast much since after COVID because they were very cautious and no access to private rooms for happy ending unless you are a member. But things seems to have changed for the better during my last visit. I booked my usual Thigh massage (松腿）. You know you're getting a hand job when she goes straight to “accidentally” brush your lil bro.
I did not want to use the private room this time due to lack of time (there’s a min 2 session charge). After a quick nego, she suggested to do the did in the main hall, propped up my left leg on her thigh and she went straight for LB with lots of oil. Enjoyed the thrill
I had a regular masseur in the past who lets me grope her tits discreetly in the main hall while playing porn silently on her phone.
We continued in this way for quite a while, I didn't soften up, I just wasn't able to go over the edge. I finally cum and by then she had worked up a sweat and had to remove her cardigan. A quick clean up and transferred 250 RMB in cash directly to her and 50 tips via official tip form.