[dodgekenji]

Maybe you are right in getting ourself fit, as for your FL, I do not have the spending power like you because career is going through low tide now.




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Originally Posted by dodgekenji

Hi bro, I am also doing some sport to get some energy and attention off from my sexless marriage. I do not know about women, but I felt that men need to make love so that they feel wanted or loved by women. When wife does not even want you to touch her then that means she is no longer interested in you. Let alone communicating to you. Maybe she looked down on me or simply feel that no need to do so much already since has a family.

I brought it up once that maybe we should get some helps. She told me off dont be silly and waste money and waste energy keep thinking about sex and relationship. After that time, I did not bring up.

Now, we seldom talk and communicate, she is always watching her phone and I just do the same too. I sleep on floor and child sleep on the bed with her. There was once I sept on the bed, but she kept using her phone and i find it akward that I pretend to be asleep.

Like I said, no one I can talk to except putting words here in the forum.

I also do not want how to make myself not to think so much where our marriage is going to end up.








Hi Bro, know that you are not alone here .

I dont even get a hug or a pat on the back from my wife . used to it.

as for sex, SBF has always been there for me, so even when i dont get it from my wife , its something that i can buy.

but its the emotional aspect ( i went through the gongtao period from ktv/ siam diu girl and that was painful), that i guess is lacking.

For me personally, i am throwing myself into work and also keeping myself fit ( focusing a lot on my mental health and spending money to keep my mind straight, and yes, FLs do help me keep my mind straight and its a worthwhile investment cos it fills up my soul).

sometimes i wonder, is the rest of my life going to be like this? this scares me...