[Alamak99]

I’m currently in a dilemma. Some of the bro here might think of it as a blessing, but i’m not sure about that.

I’m happily married for 3 years with my wife. We had our first child shortly after the honeymoon. Since we needed help with the baby, my mother moved into our house to help with chores and taking care of our baby. However, this changed a few months ago due to my father deteriorating health. My mother had to move back to take care of my father.

Here comes the dilemma. Since we needed help, we asked my mom-in-law to move in to Singapore to stay with us. My wife is from Vietnam. She had 3 other siblings. 1 elder brother and 2 younger sisters. Her brother is staying in Vietnam with their mom. While the other 2 sisters are also working in Singapore. They rented a room to share here.

Since MIL decided to stay with us. To make it more comfortable for her. We thought that probably both my SIL could move in to stay with her so that she can feel more at home. This is where my problem occurs. I’m not sure because both my SIL had been staying only just the 2 of them, they really do not had any guard up for men in the house.

What i mean is they do not wear bra at home. They also wear super “comfy” pyjamas set. Meaning it’s thin and low cutting. Some of you that know Viet ppl, they love to sit on the floor. So i often had a clear view when they were sitting down or playing with my baby. The most shocking one was one night, one of them walk out without any top. Just towel hanging on her neck to cover her chest area to walk into the common bathroom. I was in the kitchen at that time. She stopped to chat with me but i had hard time keeping my eyes wondering. Her side boobs were clearly seen. All these made me had to do it with my wife more often due to the need to release the urge.

I actually hinted my wife a couple of times. Like during laundry, i would point out the SIL pyjamas materials is quite thin out already. Probably need a new one. Sometimes during my work trip to bangkok, i will buy a set of home clothes to wear as gifts.

Any other idea how to hint my wife more to let her talk to her sisters? I love my wife and do not want this to become an issue in the future. I do not know how to approach this without sounding like i had checked out her sisters.