[Kualalumpur]

Originally Posted by X_plorer

Then do you know how to and how much to get a divorce. My wife just brought me to see her friend last Sunday, there is this uncle who married my wife's friend last year. Which i thought my wife is blowing up the story only when i feel it myself, the gal went out with us for a meal together, then to catch up for a while with my wife, but her husband call up and ask where we are, then also ask for my wife's contact.

But here comes the trouble, he call around 10 min later asking where we are going, and ask a lots of question, going where, going to do what, etc..., then after 20 min, he called again, asking where is our exact location, what time coming back etc... then another 10 min called again, asking where is the exact location again, and another 10 min call again, which i n my wife dun even bother to ans, when total to 23 missed call from my mobile, dun how many missed call from her wife's mobile.

But that's not the worst, he calculate even a single cent with his wife that going here and there, like petrol cost to go here and there to eat, so expensive, how much it cost, then eat seafood expensive...etc. I can't even imagine, her wife requested just to eat 2 crab, and my wife told me that the husband didn't even buy for her to eat just because expensive, come on, how expensive is that?

And even she wanted to buy chat chat card to call back to Vietnam, she have to pay for herself.

Here comes the most annoying part. The husband will only give her household allowance after every 30 days in Singapore and will only give 10 days upon reaching 30 days, and she is suppose to work with him from morning 6am to 6pm giving her $50 daily only after work, only food, the husband will pay for her, but all the other things which the wife's need or other things, she would have to pay for herself. I even heard that her husband got a son and a daughter already, but only the son is staying with him. But he even collect rental from his son just because he is staying with him.

The gal told my wife that her husband change totally after marriage from day 1. Which i think, who can endure this type of treatment, is she his wife, or just treating her like a overnight booking working whore?

This uncle is a 60 plus old uncle and the gal is just 20 plus.. And he didn't even give a single cent to her family when married. He is such a miser till who can tolerate this kind of person and act. He is not poor, i seen his car, he can buy a korean car at around $70plus k and fully paid, and wanted to change car in a few months time, and his house also fully paid. But he can be so bastard..

So anyone can figure out who to help the gal to divorce the husband, but the issue is the gal do not have money to pay for the lawyer, but the husband would not file for divorce and pay for the fees neither.

If any bros here wants to know the address of this bastard son of a bitch, i can even find out. I only know he lives at AMK, Blk 547 or 5**, can't remember well, on the second level.

Any comments on this type of people?

I am newcomer, and live in Ha Noi. Sorry to say that, but this story of the poor girl sounds too familiar to me to remain unanswered. This girl is once again bullshitting again, and that story is the same standard story they pass with teardrops or otherwise to all their friends and friends of their friends, to explain how "bad" their husband is. Sum up: please help me to destroy him, I want to get another husband/boyfriend.

Viet girls have 2 stories when they want to divorce. First their husband is very bad and play with girls in karaoke, or underage girls, or boys. When the husband is very famous to be "serious" ( or protects himself so no one can proove his mongering ), they have the story 2, that is exactly the one you write down ! The purpose is to lower and destroy their husband reputation before the "final hit", they try to group as many people as possible on their side to finish their husband, and that usually helps to hide the fact that maybe they have boyfriends, or sucked all the money from their husband...

I married a Vietnamese 2 years ago. I was not "poor" by any standards, and she is very well educated with a high salary ( 1500US$/month), from medium-wealthy family. I paid for everything, well actually "she" paid, because at that time I did not speak vietnamese. I passed her the money that she used to pay the house, the car with driver, the restaurants, the maids, an expensive handphone, etc... She was divorced, 1 child, I paid everything from the studies in foreigner school to travel abroad for his holidays... Still "I" did not pay, because she insisted to do it herself, on the basis that "everything is cheaper amongst vietnameses". I happened not to be introduced to her friends too much, just her family ( who actually welcomed all of her boyfriends but that I learned later!).

Suddenly, she had some very bad guys who wanted to harm her in her work, and threatened her. That would be the disaster of her life, she would not keep the guard of her children, etc... Had to pay over the week end 50.000US$. Stupid of me, I did it. I paid for some other things, now I know she had a boyfriend at the time she married, and the said boyfriend happens to have won a lot of money lately. She started to call of her friends to explain exactly the same bullshit that this gal from SG tried to brainwash you with. I am "cheap man", I never paid anything, look, all the invoices under the name, the house paper under her name ( yep, but the receipt from the owner was for a transfer straight from my private bank account ! That saved me, because I could show to her "relationship" that she is a liar), I refused to pay for her children some books ( she forgets to mention the USA travel for US$6000 ). Unfortunately I happened to know several of her friends ( one man needed an expensive surgery for his daughter in Singapore for a cancer, and I passed to him the money like that, no receipt, nothing, so he warned me immediately about what's going on !) better than she expected

Before trusting a girl about her husband, or a man about his wife be very careful. That story sounds really like the "B schedule" from a Viet woman who wants to divorce and make others forget her faults...