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Originally Posted by KangTuo
I hope my vn girlfriend is the needle in the haystick...
I experience something of the same kind with my vn girlfriend. Know her for nearly 2 years already.
1st year only frequent visit to VN.
1st year birthday, ask for HP... bought a $100 2nd hand hp. She damn happy. Now the hp spoilt, she still keep it. She asy its my 1st present to her.
near end of 1st year... she say parents owe money, need $1500. I helped.
2nd year, i intiate to help her in her rental. $200/mth
2nd year birthday, I see her going work in 'xe om' everyday, I heart pain. So I initiate to buy her a motorbike. She source around and found 1 2nd hand Honda xxxxx. $500.
mid 2nd year, brother go school need notebook. I buy 1 notebook $1100 paying 2year installment. But deduct $50 from her mthly allowance till installment is paid up.
near end 2 year (now), again family owe money. Helped her family again with $2000.
Money is always involve somehow at certain point of time. but it really depend on the cc they ask for. My girlfriend seems to be a small cc... machiam a QQ car.  |
Hey Bro, your situation is quite same as mine or even a lots of bros out there, but yours is gf, mine is wife..
Their Family keep calling after a short period of time. I've been sending money more punctual than another working adults pay day.. But i can predict confirm there are something coming again and again.. This one sick, that one accident, this one give birth, that one study.. Seems that every problem also arise to me.. Me 1 person working have to feed my baby, her and her family.. But luckily after been a long time, when somethings arise from her house, only giving a very small amount. Otherwise, i also married for having a happy family or just a ATM machine..
Sometimes keep just thinking, if i no need to send money to her family in VN, that would be good. At least my new car instalment would be lesser by half.. Her mum got daughter, got son, but how come none of them is supporting, but me as a son in law is doing it..
Sometimes keep thinking got married wrong person or from wrong country. But as for my wife spending, still okay, only occasionally likes to buy a bits of clothing which i think 99% gals would do so, otherwise This Fashion can have so much outlets.. But the main headache things is still her family side..
Bros out there. how many got the same or similar situation as me?
I think some would be worse. But of course i'm not condeming vn gals. Still can see some are good also.. But some really cannot make it and can do anything just for money.. So sad... Even Betraying their husband...