Bro yy0202,
Its been 8 years since your last serious relationship, please don't jump right into this one.
Really hate to see you crash and burn.
My Advice : Treat it like driving, put on you seat belt first then 1st gear, 2nd gear.... Go slow and don't commit too much of your feelings and $$$ resources at one go.
Good Luck on your new relationship
衷心祝福你:新年快乐!幸运之星永远照着你 !!!
Gambit88