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Old 02-02-2009, 11:20 AM
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Re: Matters in my heart....

Yo Bro,

Congrats on the good news. Pinoy ladies once they fall in love will be truthfull and faithfull all the way. I nearly married one many many many moons ago... But it did not go through as family objections sorta threw a spanner into the works. But seriously, you will have to get to know her better. Get to know her culture better too. But do take your time. It took me almost 3 years before I actually allowed myself to let her in. It is only after you understand her well that you will know your future with her.

Also as mentioned in this thread, they are more expressive and also more sensual and sexual than local gers. So you will have to be prepared to see some activity that might make you feel uncomfortable, like her touching or laughing with another male colleague. Do not turn green and start to steam everytime you see that. Sometimes they will be more circumspect when they get into a relationship, but maybe not. But one thing you must never do is to not respect her. The moment you start to think she is slutting around, it will devestate her as she already has to put up with a lot of disapproving stares and ideas from locals. That is the unfortunate problem we have, we segragate people by race or citizenship and to some, all pinoy ladies are WL. And if they one they love also start to think it this way, it will be the biggest blow to them.

Have fun and enjoy and get to know her. Philipinnos are great people and I have a great many frens from there.