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Originally Posted by ekemono
Like what bro Singbiet mentioned, once you sign the dotted line, reality kicks in. And in their dictionary all foriegn son-in-law are rich.
It does not mean that the wife or gf is bad, but this is how their worlds works. And if you think a few years/months can easily change their mentality that was engraved into them for decades, then it will be a daunting task.
To give, you will have to eventually, the different is how often and how unreasonable only.
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True loh.. I see my friend who married to a VN ger.... Before marriage, just a BGR thing, very good to him. Takes care of him everything even though there is no $$ involved. But things changed after he married her....
Complaint to me everyday abt his ger family asking for $$ loh.... Even earn $4k per month also not enough to give to the family... Their requests endless...
Well he made the choice. So now he is trying to brainwash the ger but like many bros are talking about... It takes DECADES!!...