Can't agree more. I just think its not morally correct.
But to me, i always find Asian girls not up for such a Fuck buddy deal. Even ONS in Asia always seem awkward the morning after.
The foreign ladies truly have it hard here in Vietnam. I have not seen any decent looking vietnamese male here! And the few foreign ladies i know, have really no inclination towards asian men, period.
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Originally Posted by tuyen
Dude... Vietnam is NEVER a good place for COMMERCIAL SEX. Many people misunderstood this. Vietnamese girls can give you very good GFE if you bother to romance them a little, rather than act like a big boss who pays some amount of money and demands to be served like a king. It's does not work this way. Take a little time to talk and joke with the girls, be nice to them and things will turn out more than what you expected.
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This brings out an interesting point. Many forum users through their requests have consistently positioned Vietnam as a prospective destination where the Vina Lians are great value at a commercial level. Through the many replies, this sort of clears the air, the vina lians are not good value for money. So i guess the message is clear, Vietnam, not a value destination in this aspect.
Talking about romanacing then, this is interesting moral perspective. Do we romance an Vina Lian becasue we feel that we can engage them and move together towards a couple status or is this romancing a strategy to differentiate ourselves from a "me me me "perspective.
I guess if you romance someone whom you are fond off, ultimately, it does not matter if it is a Vina Lian, Siam Lian or Ah lian. Bottom line is it is a genuine feeling and alignment of both parties
However, if romance is used as a strategy for the sake getting better "service" or GFE,then there could be some mismatch expectation. For the girl, she may truly feel that this "romancing"could be going some where but for the guy, it is just a approach for a "feel good" factor which ultimately is individual focus. So the question is, would one romance to get into her pants or would one romance becasue that is a genuine feeling?
I guess in life, morally, lets make the right decision. If we just want to jab her, lay our cards outright. Personally, i don;t think i would romance a girl just to get a GFE as I might be leading her on . For the many ladies that i have dated in Vietnam, they have been foreign ladies who have explictly said, i am lonely and i need a fuck buddy. If you are cool with it, lets get it on. Both oUr expectations are aligned in that sense.
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