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Originally Posted by mao86
As u noe if the viet gurl gt no problem y do they care to come spore rite.I reali dun understand y i love her so much n also i missed vietnam. U noe that sometimes 1 mnth i go viet alone 1 time and worst of all even if it is a dae i would also go. nw its been 1mnth odd since i went back so missed her n viet so much. It is nt gd for a 23yr old guy to love a older gurl but then i also cant help it. Worst of ALL i tink among fellow brother here no 1 younger than mi rite ? I reali am confuse so much. am i really in posion. I really want to married her but then i would nid to give up my parents.
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Wow your problem is bigger than wat i anticipated...so she was a WL here...that's not good...she said she got cheated...may i ask why she dun come here any more...cheated is not banned from entering sin...you also mentioned she had family problems...so wat she is working in vn and is it hcm...if she is working as WL...then you are really kc-ed very deeply...love is something cannot explained...i think you love her more than she loved you...you are playing on very dangerous field...i am afraid you bound to lose...let me ask you...1. Do you know wat she is doing when you are not in vn...2. Can you afford to feed her family and her for life...3. Are you financially self sufficient...4. Can you afford to lose your parents and those who loved you dearly for a meaningless love relationship at your tender age of 23...5. What happened you defied everything and married her but later you found out all her faults and that she all along cheated you...6. Will your parents forgive you and take you back after all these events...you are really young to venture into this kc game and i will say you are no match for an older lady...btw, how much older is this gal...my advice is for you to dwell on and not that i am aways right...there are enough examples here in this thread if you bother to read...just my two cents worth...
