Re: Commercial Sex – Some of my thoughts and reflections
Great topic! I feel like I should contribute a bit...
I think the number of FLs + HC gals + KTV gals that I've bonked are more than my fingers and toes now... probably can still do the spreadsheet like some bros suggested if i try very hard to recall cos all of them happened in the last 2/3 years. So i still consider myself rather new in this trade.
The first time i bonked a KTV gal, i was already cheated. lol.. and that was in SH. That's why i stuck with HCs for a while before going back to KTV. But again I was KC'ed by the KTV gal when i return to the KTV scenes. (i am still learning..lol) I think FLs are the best to fuck and forget. Cos you go in, shower, fuck, pay and leave and you probably wont see the gal again since she may never return.
I've to agree with uncle sammy though... no matter they are KTV gals/HCs/FLs, they are just out here for your money. Don't put your feelings into it. There's no need for pity too. I know..I've had this feelings for them in the beginning as well. But really there's no need for it. I learned all this from a gal from a HC. I visited her a few times and became close to her. After the recent closure, i told her that, as a friend, i strongly encouraged her to take this opportunity to retire. You have no idea how much time i spent talking to her... But you know what? Although she said is trying but deep down it's tough for them because the money is quick and easy and they are already used to living at that kind of lifestyle. She said that to me herself. It's really not that they don't have a choice. Ultimately, they are just lazy or afraid to venture other ways of making a living other than selling their body. Of coz, i heard other stories from her where her colleagues have husbands/bfs using their money or have gambling problems... but believe it or not, those are actually the rare ones! Most of them already own house, car, etc in their hometowns.
The conclusion is - All you need to give them is $ and respect, not pitiness and feelings.
As for myself, I have to admit I did thought about retiring coz like TS said, after you shoot, the emptiness sucks. What's the point, right? So I came up with an *excuse* to continue. I want to complete a few other races/nationalities first before I retire... So far, I think i'm still missing malay (minah), korean and angmo. I doubt i'll ever get japanese here unless i go HK. Actually I haven't tried a local hongkie too.. haha.. so perhaps 4/5 more?
BUT the problem is, i already thought of the next excuse.. i haven't tried AJ and ShuangFei... hahaha..
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