[BiRd13]

Very nice and detail post.

However, some comments about some points (which I understand/heard from some of the sister in here =)

1) Sometimes even how much detail/expectation one have stated, there's still people whom doesn't understand the meaning, and continue spamming their mailbox. Even if via email, one have to click to open it to read it, which takes time too. So one unable to read/know from the subject if the person really meet his/her requirement.

2) Guess one will never know how a relationship will turn out? One may be just looking for ons/fling or even temp fb. How would one be able to know that it might turn out to be a perm FB, or even proceed into relationship? So well, I guessed its' difficult to state what one really into (As in ons/fling or temp fb etc). At least I met one of the sis in here, and from 'chatter' become friend, and become FB, and later become couple. (Though we broke up already, but still maintain as FB)

3) I do agreed that one should not use their original email, especially for those sister. One should create a new email (its easy to create !!) for such posting. And I think even for hp number, one still can give the number out, for easy meet up. For assurance, maybe can get a temp number? or like one said, msn using smartphone will be the best.

4) For meeting, meet in public I would suggest. Rather than meeting up in isolated area. Not neccessary meet up have to go hotel and sex. Though most thinking are like that. But perhaps a meal and some chit chat to understand one more, and maybe for one to feel more comfortable, before other stuff.

5) Hygiene is a MUST for whatever case. Even if you prefer raw, one should not do it during the first meet up. For subsequence case, its up to one individual and own judgement on that. Even if sex toy may need to involve, bring your own =) Rather than using the other partner one. Frankly speaking, even my FB offer me sex toy in which she newly bought (unless in packing), I don't even use too =) Usually, we have our own sex toy. Once in awhile, will inform each other to bring it out, to enjoy those =)

6) I agreed on 'What may go wrong' comments. Better play safe than sorry. You will never know if hidden cam is pre-hidden in the room. My pov: First, even if going to hotel, book and check in together, instead of letting the other party in going ahead in booking first. Second, whenever you need to bath, make sure the important stuff are brought in with you together (Eg: Wallet/Purse/Handbag, Handphone etc) and of course, clothing too. You won't want to exit the toilet to find the valuable things are with you, but aren't able to locate your clothing right? =)

Again, this is just some of my pov added into bro Xgenre suggestion. I believe there's more valuable and good suggestion from other bros out there too.