Just an update, since I've started this thread, there had been a few ladies who PM me. Most just want to share their troubles with me and I've added them to my MSN list to chat with them. I'm now like an Uncle Agony of the forum like that. For the record, I'm not an old man although I write like one.
I'm also do not wish to be an Uncle Agony. The stories are really sad.
Recently a lady PM me and we met for lunch. Her husband is a samster and she found out about what he does here. She told me to send out a message that married or attached people should reconsider finding FLs as it hurts the wife or gf. I told her that this is an adult forum and we don't preach morales here. Guys, there is a saying in the army. Do anything you want but don't get caught. If you can't stop engaging in SBF related activities, at least try to cover your tracks and not get caught. Ignorance can be bliss to your loved ones.
Decided to write in this thread as the PMs resulted from this thread.