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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by Golden question View Post
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u say u are wearing out so meaning to say u have try many times.is very difficult to change their mind cos u must remember 1 thing,she need the fast money to bring back for her family.can u provide her?if no,u have to ask yourself,let go or close one eye.

age also play a part,if she is very young,the chances of her working in vietnam food shops is slim.
the problem is many prongs...

the mian thing lies in that they are too nice to their family, many of them shower their family with the money they make making the family thirst for more and in time create their own problem again.

I always tell them to give enough to their family and not expose them to higher wealth. a day will come when they work no more but the family stills want more ....so really whoose fault is it ...
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