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Originally Posted by Golden question
this sentence show that bro singviet i really respect u from the way you give advise to bro here.the most important is have money inside the bank.i have saw many rich people who dress very normal with t shirt and short during weekend and also poor people who dress like tai tai with branded clothes and handbag but inside no money  |
No la bro, just that sometimes i get a bit fed up looking at how people behave nowadays. I do hope that bros out there who got offended by my statements do pardon me for my harsh words. The world is actually becoming a very superficial place. You got to dress well, drive big cars, have damm a lot of credit cards to have people to respect you. I always believe that friendship and kinship is not based on money. But to be responsible to your love ones i.e. wife, parents , children , is always important. I have seen too many youngsters being irresponsible. Just take a simple look around the roads, youngsters in their cheap cars zooming at super high speed, cutting in and out of lanes. They failed to realise that they are causing hazards to others on the road. A second of carelessness may cause injury or death, not just to himself but to others too. Another being going into marriage without much thought. Lust drives the youngster to marriage. Marriage is about responsibilities and endurance, but of course, it comes with some lovely dovey, comes with some good sex. But if one cannot shoulder responsibilities, how is one going to make the marriage last? if after have kids and the couple decides to divorce, the person who suffers the most is the kid. I have also seen lots of cases of hopeless individuals who, at the age of late 30s or even 40s, still depend on the pitiful parents. They let the parents pay for everything, from food to utility to almost everything, while they party all night long and spend all their pay to merrying around. No assets at that age is bad enough, still get married, have kids and let the parents pay for every damm thing. From the child's diapers to milk powder, all paid for by his parents. His and his wife's daily expenses all paid for by parents. This being the fact that parents are not rich. He still go around boasting he's damm successful in his business. damm.. what has the world become? I cannot change others, but i try my best on my part to be a responsible father, husband and son.