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Old 07-08-2011, 08:27 AM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by haojian View Post
Now that I know that she dont see me as her husband, what can i do to keep my babies. what is the last straw? should I really buy a house, as she say " BUY A HOUSE FOR ME"

then she have a house in with her name, an asset for her to threaten me with...whenever we have a disagreement.
would i lose a house and my babies???
If she doesn't treat you like a `husband', then why should you buy an asset under her `name'? You know well that she needs $$$, and by buying a house under her name, you are paying for something that she will sell off in the near future to give to her lazy family. What's holding you back to make clean break with her? Like i say before, she will not want to have the children with her for long, the children will hinder her movement and add on to her burden. You place so much emphasis on the children, and that's why she's using the children as a tool to demand more from you. By the way, where did you meet her? Thru marriage agency or Joo Chiat?