[JuzAHornyGuy]

Actually its okay to unleash it on me in life i always believe in negative and positive feedback, its pain and hard to hear but its alwaya necessary without it i wouldnt be who i am today. Anyway i think i'm being wronged here a bit so I would like to clarify the matter at hand and i guess sometimes honesty does get you in a bit of trouble.

It is partly my fault as i thought that she had finalised out all her terms with me. But i did give her my word before we agreed to couple swing that ultimately the choice to swing with a couple or not is hers, for me i am very easy to please and will mostly be okay with anything but I still have my standards of course. But i still believe chemistry is important, but it wins over looks. For this i take full responsibilty and believe me i was a bit frustrated when she said she wasn't keen yesterday as I was quite attracted to the couple and was actually hoping to swing with them. When I was talking to them I found that they met all her terms and was sure it was a done deal.

But when she heard they smoked or saw that they did, it must have somehow triggered off something as she told me her ex used to smoke and she didn't like it, maybe it brought back bad memories for her. But I didn't ask her what was the reason why she didn't like smokers and respected her decision.

Even getting up from the chair was really hard and having to walk away was even harder but I just had to put on a false smile and agree with her decision as I have given her my word.

When we met the couple yesterday we did have an agreement that we would talk it out first, list down our terms and come to an agreement. If both couples were comfortable then we would go ahead with the swing. I don't think any couple would just meet up and head straight to a swing right? And we didn't exchange pictures with the couple as they were not agreeable to exchange pictures. But I respected their privacy and decision. Instead me and my gf took a chance in meeting them and were hoping to swing. Maybe indirectly we gave the couple false hope that the swing was going to happen, but in fact we did agree to meet up to have a feel of one another first.

You make them go all the way down and dismiss them the moment you hear they smoke? Whoa .... a really pure waste of time. I mean, these are things that can be pre-defined beforehand. We should always be mindful and respectful of other people's time.>>
To this I agree that I did waste their time and I am sorry, thats why I felt so bad afterwards and would really like to make it up to them another day. BUT in my defense if you actually see it from a bigger picture, I could have just messaged the couple saying that she wasn't agreeable to it and I didn't have to explain why. But I really liked them and was a bit reluctant to not be able to swing with them, so I felt that I owed it to them to tell them the real reason why my gf wasn't up for it as I didn't want them to go back thinking there was something wrong with them. As being turned down is never easy. But on the other hand if I was in the couple's shoes I would be pissed to. But to cut things short..I didn't know about this bit of information too, I too found out about it at the last minute and was caught off guard as well.

And what I am more gutted about are overly eager guys who bring unsuspecting partners who doesn't know or doesn't want to swing. Or girls who had agreed but get the cold feet upon arrival. Then .. lotsa commotion after that. Really a spoiler.>>
Trust me she is not unsuspecting even though she is young, she fully agreed to this and has already done a full swing in the same room with me with another couple not from SBF. She definitely doesn't get cold feet and doesn't have cold feet, she is just a bit choosy. But so was I at that age and I only got less choosy after negative feedback and experiences in life. Though I agree it really is a spoiler and I won't let this happen again.

"Excusing yourselves gracefully and basic respect". >>
I admit I didn't fulfill this part as I was thinking more about honesty at that time.

"Go with a open heart to make friends , if anything happens its a bonus . With this mentality , you will never go wrong">>
I always have this in mind and it was my intention for this session, although were eager to swing with another couple, the swinging is just a bonus.

So at the end of this Senorita CouplesSwing I accept your unleashing and forgive you for it. It shows you care..hehe :P Cheers!