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Originally Posted by marcopit
That's my headache now, should i let her cleared her debts before i marry her  |
Hi There,
You situation seems to be similiar with mine..let me break down your situation..
loan 11k, As mentioned how to get such large sum of load without any form of warranty for the loan itself? No bank, No Ah Long will lent money without some solid thing in return. There is more than meets the eye for this monies..
From business point of view when things sounds too good to be true it usually is.. Looking from the other side..when things sounds too sad to be ignored your judgement will be clouded by your emotions and it will eventually leads to poor decisions.. find out more about this loan not from them but from 3rd party if you can,get a private investigator like example..
If you look from "LOVE" POV then no man will want their love ones gets hurt..no man wants to share their woman..so you may want to close your mind and help her with the loan BUT dont regret at the end of the day when things dont goes the way you intended..
Just my 5 cents worth of comments..
My decisions in my case..I gave up the relationship because I found out more information from other sources..sad but we always learn and remember pain than pleasure..take care