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Originally Posted by Spectrre

Wise word from bro sv.. Me unfortunately falls into what bro sv say, 20 something wan marry. Not a high earner, only mid range, able to support a family comfortably with a little saving each month. The only downside is not able to cheong anymore. All money is for my family. Me is upper range for 20 something. Marriage teach me nothing but responsibility. Now trying to adopt Vietnam child. Call me stupid, but dont know why I do that. God at work.

Calculate before, My monthly salary enough for a 3 child family as long as we live simple. Maybe an outing every Sunday or a all out outing spare no expenses once a month.

Reading through the post, pple may call me naive. So young wan adopt cfm cannot approve blah blah blah, marry so young blah blah blah. But really have affinity with the child. Already sent 500 plus to his grandma for English lesson and another 500 for living expenses. My bx told his grandma money for him, if anyhow use, can forget everything.

even if adopt no approve, at least know English, next time also not so jialiat.

Bros, am I dumb or not, give so much to child unrelated to me.

To some, I dumb, to myself, I find it worthwhile.

Bro, you are not dumb, you have a good heart, what you did is correct as long as you feel it is right move.