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Originally Posted by aakumu
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The one thing I learn is that, no matter how much you want to built a relationship with a meimei in CP, it normally will not work out...99%....not a 100%....thank goodness.
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It boggles the mind how they could change so fast; could it be that their sisters told to get more from their man, or maybe the could not hold their wished back to grab as much money as possible.....
Appreciated so sound advice, as I am at a lost.
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Firstly, most "relationships" in CP starts off based upon $$ changing hands - so one can only expect that $$ is in the back ground at all times. Not realistic to expect that the girl will have a change of her heart/her actual motive in coming over to CP - that is to make as much money as possible using her body. Whether doing it per time, taking on semi long "assignments" with clients who wants to spend their time in CP with them, by being actually Bao'd, by coming up with elaborate scams, cons...whatever.
And there is a variety of reason why and how a gal will "progress" in her pursuit of $$ when you're in a relationship with her; from learning from her friends, from being jealous of how some of her friends are being treated by their patrons compared to how you are with her, from demands (continual or emergency) from her family, from realizing that her own youth is slowly but surely being wasted on a relationship that has no future - again whatever - and not really important for you to understand/care about - just that it surely does happen!!
Remember, she had all along resigned herself to selling her body for $$$ and that is not something she easily forgets; yeah, maybe at the beginning she may just let herself slip a bit and also enjoy the light and music and romance of the relationship - but the cold stark reminder of reality always comes back to her.
My advise and how I usually handle this - go right ahead and enjoy such "romances" to the full. Enjoy the fluttering heart, the light, the music of love to the hilt...FOR THE MOMENT.... but ALWAYS have it at the back of your mind that the relationship IS based upon $$ changing hands. Remind yourself this and even remind her too - for on the off chance that she gets caught up in the whole thing herself/forgets her real purpose, that she will not be unnecessarily hurt too.
Just my POV
SEAJ