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Old 19-06-2013, 01:42 PM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

Hi bros n sisters. Please help!!

I meet a vn gal last year. Had been with her for 6 months. During this 6 months. Many things happened.

When I met her for the first 2 months. I visited her in vn. She had a maid which employed by her ex husband to look after the baby. So since I am a divorced man. I don't mind she had a baby.

Soon follow by some mysterious yahoo encountered. I used to chat n webcam with her on Yahoo. Everyday without fail. But one day, she like disappeared n I cannot contact her on phone n SMS. I called n SMS her. She never reply. Only the next day she told me she was at the police station. So cannot reply. Cos of tax problem. Since she had a printing business but was not doing well. But she was actually caught online gambling. She lied to me.

I was angry with her n decided to delete our yahoo. And never talk.

2 days later, I received an invitation from a person on Yahoo. So I thought she changed her yahoo name, n I accepted the invitation n added her. Only I realized it was her maid who ask her niece to contact me.

The maid informed me many of her bad things in Cantho. Cos she see me as a decent and good man. But I never trust her. I thought she maybe jealous of her.

I went vn holiday n managed to call my ex to go with me. Cos I think that was her past n may not affect me.

During November 2012. She claimed she was pregnant with my child. She told me she was not ready. I told her to keep the baby. And she said she want to drink some medication to kill the baby.

Ever since that day. The maid always yahoo me and said she lied to me about her pregnancy. She is like my spy. Telling me every movement of her when she can. In toilet, niece house n supermarket. In December, I decided to make a last trip to visit my ex n with the help of the maid. I found prove of ex bf still SMS her, police report documents about her online gambling charges.

I never confront her during my stay at her house. I only do it after I reached Singapore through Yahoo.

She finally admit. N I decided to stop our relationship. Recently I found another vn gf. I changed a new fb account. She managed to track it and report to my new gf aunty.

She threaten to report to Singapore embassy n vn police n newspaper. To tell them I am a cheater.

Anyone any clue as what will be the outcome? Thanks in advance.