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Originally Posted by Golden question
For those bro who think that singaporean way of doing things especially for thinking will be the same as us,better think twice before marrying 1
Their culture and thinking is totally different from us.Those viet u want to use our thinking of 'Give a person a fishing rod and teach him to fish rather than give him fish to eat',u can try.
Their stubborness and thinking that foreigner are always rich will always be on their mind.
Some bro will say,mine is different but some culture and thinking will always be in their blood same as singaporean,kiasu or kiasi will always be on our blood
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There are always the good and bad of VN same like Chinadolls. I cant say that I'm an old bird with VN but I had known VB coming to 10 years. I saw some of them don't really care how much you give them, they care more how much you love and take care of them. They are stubborn at times but if they are our wife, we need to educate them.
I had friends who doesn't earn much is marrying a VB but they live happily and I do had friends who married a VB get divorce in the end. If we intend to get VB as a partner, we need to understand them and return, they need to understand us.
I had friend who is earning around 10K++ a month married to this VB he know for a year only. We thought they cant last as the gal was bit young for him. Now, They had 1 kid and 1 more coming. My friend told me inital 1st 6 month staying together is difficult. His wife cant stand the food Singapore, often wanted to eat JC. After numerous arguements, fights and talks make them understanding better. Now his wife take care of his children and mum. He don't need to give his wife family allowance but every Chinese New Year, my friend gave his wife family a big ang bao. They do live happily.
My friend advise me is try not to let ye wife mix with those Single VB, mixed with those married in Singapore it ok. Cos my friend find that those Single VB often gave his wife new ideas and they end up in arguement.
I just married a VB and I do give my BX some allowance for her and her family member until we have a kids. This is a promise I made. Once both of us had kids, I will stop giving her family member allowance.
