Some musings on SBF eco system

[OBalls]

It is always a question in my mind, why SBF brothers here wants to “help” FLs by managing their threads. They invest substantial amount of their time monitoring the threads, filtering the PM requests, checking on the cheongster’s past records for FRs, etc…. This is no small amount of time. If the thread managers invests this time to help the truly needy, the poor, the old, the handicapped, the orphans, they can change the world to be a better place.
So why do bros help out this FLs ? What do they get out of it ?
a) a free fuck
b) a better fucking experience, with more GFE
c) more SBF points, which leads to better FL contacts and seniority, which leads to bragging rights and you can thumb your nose at the newbies

I can understand about the free fuck. But all that time investment for a free fuck ? hmm… maybe… some people watch TV for leisure, some goes to the pubs, some spends time with family, and of course some just surf SBF. As for the better GFE feeling, well, most FRs says that these FLs gives them the same feeling that their girlfriends gives them, so the advantage is dubious at best.

The last point, is very human, and is used by most successful marketing companies. Building up a hype. Giving value where there was none. These reputation points are generated freely, there are just digits, but link it with the hype, and they are much sought after. Just look at the Hello Kitty hype a few years ago. People scrambling, fighting to get Hello Kitty dolls from MacDonalds outlets. Some buy the burgers to throw them away just so to get the dolls that costs 50cents to make. Note that the burgers costs more than the dolls. Common sense doesn’t really come in. But human beings always have these illogical cravings. People collect coke cans, toilet seats, nail clippings, etc… Some even crave for abusive relationships, where they’re abused by their PRC mei mei partners and still hang on to these mei mei for dear life.

Eventually, these SBF reputation points are not free, as they are paid for by FRs, which costs money, unless it’s a fake FR, which happens as well. It is interesting with these rep points. A 20 year old frequent cheongster (with a rich dad) can amass much higher points than a 50 year old infrequent cheongster, with the result that the 50 year “newbie” has to give respect to the 20 year “senior”. A whole new social eco system evolves in SBF.

Most PRC MM finds that Singaporean men are suckers. China men will not invest all that time and attention on their girls, especially on FLs. They’re just fuck and forget, and if there’s any relationship to the FLs, is that of a pimp/FL relationship and they get monetary returns out of that relationship. Unlike here, where there are no returns, and yet so many bros wants to “help” the FLs. Some of these FLs, you really don’t want to give them a second look. Some common interesting description on their looks:
“looks grow on you” - I guess if you stay long enough with a 50 year old auntie, who treats you nicely, and sucks your dick with gusto, her looks will grow on you. It’s all a mind game, guys. If a girl is fuck ugly, she will be fuck ugly regardless if she does an amazing blowjob and lips of honey. The only way she gets better looking is if she went for a cosmetic surgery, or if the lights are dimmed and you take out your 1500 degrees glasses and in between the bbbj, she starts to look so, so, much better..

“looks good for a 30 year old mother” – another classic line. If I might add my line “looks good for a 40 year old mother with 10 children and another one on the way”. Guys, either the girl looks good or not, period. There’s no need to give qualifications for her looks. Why is there a need to market her to that extent?

All I can say is, looks is indeed in the eyes of the beholder. Which goes to show that men, don’t really just think with their dicks, they see with their dicks as well. Boxers don’t have to worry about brain damage anymore, cos’ there’s no hitting below the belt in the boxing ring, well… , at least the SBF boxers will be safe.

I can understand about sharing one’s fucking experiences, but helping out FL’s by starting a thread for them is alien to me. The 3 points mentioned at the start of the post, does not carry enough incentive for me to spend my time on them. Does this phenomena exists only in Singapore or they have similar “help” in other countries as well ? Ah well, the China mei meis don’t call us suckers for nothing.

[maestro7]

wow u can write a thesis!

[silverblue]

i will up you 5 points for your effort. even though i dont fully understand cause i just glance through...but i like seeing post that have lots of words

[PeteTsang69]

Loneliness

Emotional Void

When u are hungry, everything tastes good as long as it is filling, even plain sliced bread

How many of us have loving relationship with a woman? (good sex another matter)

But with a few dollars we spend an hour in the most intimate contact possible,
being 100% honest with no care in the world to have on a mask.

Feelings develop, bcos we want to be loved & feel useful & be accepted for who truly are as we are -
WE ARE NEEDY CREATURES OF LOVE & ACCEPTANCE

[angsanna]

Bro Oball, i believe most of them do the FL the favour out of money.

[Graffiti]

haha.. good good good.. ppl spend time on managing threads for FL while you spend time on writing this.. Each to its own..

up you 6 apples for this "piece"..

[gambit88]

Great Write Up, Owe You One First

TS You Forgot Mention Another Classic Line Bros Like Use -
"One Man's Meat Is Another Man's Poison."

[baimi]

OK, i am the first 'helper' to write
wish i can write better..
Agreed with time consuming and also
afraid her contact might goes to the wrong hand
and bring her trouble, i.e. get conned or robbed.
I only help one FL
Bros, who knows me knew which FL.
a) a free fuck ~ in appreaciation, she always wanted to give me
but i rejected her flatly, paid her above her
asking price each time i upped her, i.e. with tips.
b) a better fucking experience, with more GFE ~ No
Why? We are so 'friend' with each other already and the
service she provided will not be better than others.
c) more SBF points, which leads to better FL contacts and seniority, which leads to bragging rights and you can thumb your nose at the newbies~
No, for me also. Not a regular cheongster.
I don't ask for points when i share her contact, in fact
i always share her contact to newbies and those without rep power
so they can't up me. After i have accumulated enough points
to give me a rep power that's enough. I don't go around asking for points
or exchange points, some of the points i gained are through other postings.
And boss gave me 100pts for signing up Sam's Alfresco Coffee.
I did not sign up just for the points, i am an active member there.
When i get zapped, i will not make it public.
So if it's non of the above why i still want to help her?
I think it is just human, when we rear a pet we care for them.
Sometime, i am thinking it is a good or bad deed?
will something happen to me?
You guys might think i will fall for her.
In the first place when i helped her i told her straight that
we treat each other as friend only.
That;s why i don't want her 'free' only in transaction.
Was afraid she might fall for me also.


As for TS commenting of FRs, I can say it can be very fake!!

[thomas88]

Originally Posted by baimi

...When i get zapped, i will not make it public.....
In the first place when i helped her i told her straight that
we treat each other as friend only.
That;s why i don't want her 'free' only in transaction.
Was afraid she might fall for me also.


As for TS commenting of FRs, I can say it can be very fake!!

Very well said bro. You deserve more than I could offer.

[yixghjh]

Originally Posted by OBalls

It is always a question in my mind, why SBF brothers here wants to “help” FLs by managing their threads. They invest substantial amount of their time monitoring the threads, filtering the PM requests, checking on the cheongster’s past records for FRs, etc…. This is no small amount of time. If the thread managers invests this time to help the truly needy, the poor, the old, the handicapped, the orphans, they can change the world to be a better place..

Very well said Bro OBalls.....in my observations, there are some who can even managed to help and managing 3 to 4 girls (3-4 threads) at one time, and also to provide information of the girl's well being as if like FL Manager This is indeed not a small amount times to spend daily. Really incredible!

[silat]

Well say!!!!!!! Whole lot of truth there

[besafe]

Quote: I can understand about sharing one’s fucking experiences, but helping out FL’s by starting a thread for them is alien to me. The 3 points mentioned at the start of the post, does not carry enough incentive for me to spend my time on them. Unquote

Brother Oballs,
Without these thread managers, I am sure there won't be much fuck experiences to share right?

Cheers !

[namow]

*clap clap clap* impressive write up! This thread should be in FL Doom 2.

[Neighbour]

Me to *clap* *clap*

Well said TS.

Very educational to me

[tantan]

Very well written by Bro OBalls. This is very truth and should act as a wake up call to us. Thanks