What do you say or do when you are caught?

*FiReWoRkS* · #1 03-01-2007, 02:00 PM

was just curious what will fellow samsters here do or say when you are caught by yr gf/wife for engaging in commercial sex,having an affair or just stuffs that are being unfaithful to her?

will you try to beg and ask for forgiveness?cos she is still the one that you really love..

or know that you are at fault and just accept her leaving you?

do share your views thanks..

cheers

dirtymonk82 · #2 03-01-2007, 02:02 PM

die die say 'It's wasnt me'

juzjoin · #3 03-01-2007, 02:07 PM

unless she caught me having sex with another ger, if not "IT WASN'T ME"

JWNY · #4 03-01-2007, 02:17 PM

My girlfriends knew about my "commercial past" ... so they usually close an eye but of course i don't do the dirty deeds openly...

JWNY

alvinchan7 · #5 03-01-2007, 02:18 PM

Whatever you do .... die die ... do not get caught .. that is the basis of my rulez ...

Do careful planning ... and learn how to wipe out all evidences ... to prevent any mishaps ...

Yeah ... it is good to have some precaution measures or excuses .... but most of the time ... it's a risk and how professional are you to execute them ...

It also depends on different scenerios ....like you mentioned ...

If caught for having fling ... how to undermine that question ?
Being caught having a girl's phone number on your hp ? Having sms sent to you while your wife accidentally read the sms ? Or being caught outside holding hands with a girl ?
There are multiple amplitude to the seriousness of being caught ...

There's always a chance to get excuses to say ... but ultimately ... there's also a line being drawn on whether the success of getting away clean ...

Sometimes ... it also depend on whether your wife are those street smart type .. who will check on you behind your back when she is suspicious on your activites ...

I am sure many bros will offer their excuses based on different scenerios .... so let all the bros here share their excuses based on the different scenerios they have encountered ... and also state their potential success rate

Bottomline for me ... NEVER ... I mean NEVER .... get caught ... so it save you time and effort having to please or explain things to your love one.

Cheers,
Alvin

*FiReWoRkS* · #6 03-01-2007, 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by juzjoin

unless she caught me having sex with another ger, if not "IT WASN'T ME"

but what if she catch you red-handed?

*FiReWoRkS* · #7 03-01-2007, 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by alvinchan7

Whatever you do .... die die ... do not get caught .. that is the basis of my rulez ...

Bottomline for me ... NEVER ... I mean NEVER .... get caught ... so it save you time and effort having to please or explain things to your love one.

Cheers,
Alvin

yeah bro i know and agree with you that the bottomline is don't ever get caught..but how exactly will you respond when you are caught red-handed?

feel remorseful and ask for forgiveness?

or just let it be and let her leave you cos you know you are the one at fault?

and the gf/wife involved is someone whom you love with your life..

JWNY · #8 03-01-2007, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by *FiReWoRkS*

feel remorseful and ask for forgiveness?

If so...one would not have done it in the first place

JWNY

asdfghjkl · #9 03-01-2007, 03:24 PM

must ge ge a bit ma.. kekeke

Castrol · #10 03-01-2007, 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by *FiReWoRkS*

but what if she catch you red-handed?

you mean caught on the bed? pretend to struggle like the girl is forcing you. once you "break free", tell your gf/wife: "its a good thing you arrive in time to save me..."

yankim3 · #11 03-01-2007, 03:30 PM

must see how i was caught lo. normally i will die die dun admit. if caught in bed. hard la. i dun bring home to F one.

mike2006 · #12 03-01-2007, 03:45 PM

Beg on my knees and ask for forgiveness. If don't forgive, i'd force myself on her. Normally after some cuddling and sweet talking, anything can still mend. Most effective way is to shoot inside her and make her pregnant and you get the upper hand.

no_faith · #13 03-01-2007, 04:51 PM

tis happens lah
like me, i have a steady gf. but still playful at tat time. my fren jio 2 gers to beach, tink ho sey, can hanky panky liao. in d end no action leh

only hug hug
so forget it.
who noes abt 2 wks later, one of the ger becum my gf colleague, my face turned pale white when i went to pick my gf up, in my heart i noe tua ki liao, as i saw the expression on her face.
but still manage to get her forgive me? how? admit the mistake, apologize, feel remorse and sincerely want to change, promise her u will do anything to forgive u. finally she forgives me on lotz of conditions. one of dem is, must be home b4 12am every day.
she forgives me not on conditions i promise, is she still has love in me

so if ur ger still have love in u, she will forgive u eventually after u show ur sincerity

but in the end, we still break up.....

nuclearkid · #14 03-01-2007, 05:05 PM

I share bro no_faith's view on sincerely seeking forgiveness. Women are more intuitive than what most men give them credit for. And I am dead certain in most situations, no matter how hard you deny, the element of doubt is never erased. The trust would be shaken, if not shattered. Very often, they let the matter pass not because they believe the lying boyfriend or husband, but more because they are tired of the confrontation. Also, I do think some women have built-in tolerances for men's philandering ways and close an eye to it (my wife has warned me about signing on the dotted line if I am caught with my pants down) for the 'bigger picture', may it be kids, afraid of breaking up, etc.

For me, seeking forgiveness is the way to go. Using a lie to cover a lie, well, doesn't quite make things right, does it? Afterall, which would you be inclined to accept if the tables were turned?

homie · #15 03-01-2007, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by nuclearkid

I share bro no_faith's view on sincerely seeking forgiveness. Women are more intuitive than what most men give them credit for. And I am dead certain in most situations, no matter how hard you deny, the element of doubt is never erased. The trust would be shaken, if not shattered. Very often, they let the matter pass not because they believe the lying boyfriend or husband, but more because they are tired of the confrontation. Also, I do think some women have built-in tolerances for men's philandering ways and close an eye to it (my wife has warned me about signing on the dotted line if I am caught with my pants down) for the 'bigger picture', may it be kids, afraid of breaking up, etc.

For me, seeking forgiveness is the way to go. Using a lie to cover a lie, well, doesn't quite make things right, does it? Afterall, which would you be inclined to accept if the tables were turned?

DAMN TRUE.. i AGREE wif ya bro nuclearkid..