how many of u got a 2nd chance?

[alanthedevil]

and i mean got a 2nd chance from your gf/wife after being caught red handed (be it flirting with another girl, or actually having an affair).

[HoochieFlava]

i got caught red handed and yeah no 2nd chance . trust gone

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by alanthedevil

and i mean got a 2nd chance from your gf/wife after being caught red handed (be it flirting with another girl, or actually having an affair).

Me....... caught but tough to mend it back to before...

[jasdude]

i tried and fail with my ex gf and ex wife . women will forgive but will never forget ! my personal advise . be friends and move on !

[babyonboard]

Well I didn't quite get caught... I was just so guilty from cheating on my ex-gf that I blurted out the truth one day to her.

Truth be told, she should bear some blame for me cheating (though I honestly truthfully just attribute it to my horny self): we weren't having quite enough sex and she just blithely told me to go screw around 'outside'... and with her blessing as well. I even checked and double checked with her that she's giving me carte blanche to go fuck around and even pay for it and she said 'go ahead. no consequences'.

Which was what I did.

Which was also what I told her about.

And which was what also broke the relationship apart (well all that bullshit about sharing sexual experiences and 3P fantasies don't help when you are fighting over emotional bf-gf baggage).

Anyhow, suffice to say, long story short, I never got a 2nd chance. :P

[funseCker]

Originally Posted by babyonboard

we weren't having quite enough sex and she just blithely told me to go screw around 'outside'... and with her blessing as well. I even checked and double checked with her that she's giving me carte blanche to go fuck around and even pay for it and she said 'go ahead. no consequences'.

Well, women never mean what they say.. especially this kind of things. Kinda naive to believe she gave you the green light and she will be ok with it.

Peace.

[thomas88]

I've heard from one Divorce Lawyer who said that whatever you do.....never never admit to your wife about you having an affair even if you're caught with your pants down as the slightest admittion will spell a very big disaster for you.

[Alf1977]

I m now having the 2nd chance after being caught fuvking a Thai slut when I went for my one month work trip.. I guess things will never be the same as the past. Women can forgive but never forget, especially when she is one with super memory, remembering little things in details.

Will there ever be a happy ending for any guys whose gfs/wives caught them red handed having sex affairs with another women(be it a slut, FB, FT, prostitue, FL)?

[blk437]

I am given 2 chances.

1st time is when i am working abroad and i am having an affair with a Filippina Chinese with the same surname as me When i came back to Singapore, that girl called me and my gf now my wife answered the phone. She told her if she wants she can have me and from then that Filippina never call anymore. I told my gf now my wife that i regretted because i am lonely overseas thus need someone to talk to and accompany me. She cried for a while and she forgave me. She is a expressionless woman and the first time i saw her cry my heart started to ache.

2nd time is when my wife (same woman in the first scenario) is pregnant till she gave birth. Her colleague saw me with another woman shopping somewhere in Singapore. She asked me and i told her yes but i felt lonely again because she is busy with the newborn. She asked met to change my number and cut off ties with her. I did so and till now i had my second son i never get involve with another woman anymore.

Furthermore i will always tell her that i went to those sleazy KTV honestly to entertain clients. She just tell me dun anyhow give my HP number to any girls.

She forgave me on twice occassion. The more forgiving she is, the more guilty i felt and i love her even more.

Don't know whether she is genuinely so forgiving or waiting to chop off my dick while i sleep...

[Alf1977]

blk437, I guess your then gf now wife forgave you when you with filippina Chinese because she think you only seek companion without any sex involved. ( did u tell her that you have sex with the filippina Chinese?)

Second time, she Forgave you coz you admitted you with Another woman when she called, I guessed she is assuming the woman is just your colleague or so, without any sex involved too.

But do u feel guilty the more your wife forgave you? Or the more she forgive you, the more you want to go "eat" outside?

Or maybe she got a man behind your back?

But you got 2 children now, cherish your wife, children n your small happy family.. Don't ruin your happiness because of some foolish moments with other sluts, it is not worth it, unless you don't want your wife, don't want your 2 adorable children then by all mean go n fool around.

My gf was telling me, if she is pregnant with my child n she found out that I still fuck other sluts, she will abort my child to make me regret my action, or if married then found out I have another sex affair, she will immediately divorce.. Coz she said she already given me one chance before..

For now I don't think I will go not fool around, because I may be HIV positive, waiting for 3 months to do the blood test... But I wonder if I really can resist myself not to be attracted to FTs so easily n just want to fuvk them.. I feel so high especially when they are thAi girls, maybe they know how to please me n treat me like a king.

[CalmCoconut]

I believe many brothers out there also have similar predicaments.
Do already, and after that do again, and again...
At the end of the day, don't know how to tell, or if to tell at all. If don't tell, then how? Carry this secret all the way to your grave?
Or tell already - then waiting for volcano to erupt - give yourself trouble?

Maybe we should all choose to keep mump and act blur about it.

[blk437]

Hi Alf, for the first occassion she knew i fucked that philippine girl. I came back and i was afraid because i do raw.. She asked me to go for a checkup.

For the second occassion, before her colleague told her about me, my wife already knew about this girl.

For both occassion, my wife just does not want to directly confront me on whether i fucked the girls. Sometimes i feel that she knows its better not to know the truth just to keep this family sticking together.

I love my family and i have stop my nonsense. Since she was pregnant with my second baby, we have not have sex anymore. I have not been fucking a woman for 1 year. I told her we need to celebrate for me being a monk for 1 long year and i am basically mentally raping every woman everyday. She knew it and she just keep quiet. Haiz.. Everything she also keep quiet. Anyway we are doing fine and loving as ever.

Btw, hope all goes well for you.

Cheers!

[Alf1977]

Blk437, your wife is a open heart person who can go to the extend of forgetting the deep cut you pierced through her heart twice.. How can she do it?

Your wife is pregnant is never an excuse for you to bonk other women, mind you carrying your baby is not simple n easy as it seem, hope u cherish her! N cherish the 2 chances your wife given u.


Don't fall into another woman's trap for the 3rd time or ever again.. If u really need sex, can ask yr wife to BJ for you, at least better than you going to fuck other woman n risk yourself being infected with STD n HIV..

If next time u ever cannot resist the temptation, put your family photo inside your wallet n always take out to look at it before you go fuck another woman..becoz the price is too high to pay for that moments of enjoyment.. A broken family, and your children will not have privilege of having a complete family, either they have mummy no daddy, or have daddy no mummy..

Don't let these ever happen in your life although your wife may jolly well forgave u the 3rd time, but I can tell you if that happen, maybe she no longer love you, n her heart is dead!

[vanram]

Hi Bros,

I got a second chance. I was married once before and my sex life was bad. Only had sex once or twice a month and I'm highly sexed. But when we did have sex, it was out of this world, really crazy sex and love making that brings you so high but not enough of it. Didn't have any kids cos the doctor said she had cycts and not able to unless she when for an op. Which means we never used condoms.

Finally, due to the lack of regular sex/love making, we decided to part our ways, divorce. But we still were friends with benefits as she did need the sex once in awhile and I enjoyed the sex with her everytime.

Eventually, I met someone else and got married. My wife is a wonderful person, the sex was good, even BBBJ/CIM and she drinks it all. Very regular, I mean 5 to 6 times a week, I'm serious, she is highly sexed too. Well, being a horny guy who is not satisfied with what he has, I was still having sex with my ex, on the side.

The bad part of this beautiful picture was the guilt. Anyway, nothing good ever lasts. My ex-wife got pregnant and she wanted to keep the baby. She justified that if she could not have me, at least she could have my kid (She does not want to re-marry). I was in a fix, could not ask her to abort cos I wanted the kid too and didn't know how to explain all this to my wife.

After six months of killing myself mentally, I decided to tell my wife. She knew something was wrong by the way I was behaving. But I was too late.. I woke up one morning and found her crying, I looked at her and asked her why and she asked me to tell her the truth. She asked me if my ex-wife was seeing anybody and if she was pregnant, I told her that she wasn't seeing anyone and admitted that she was expecting. She started crying even more before she was able to ask the next question, knowing the answer all too well. "Is she carrying your baby".. I said "yes"...

It was more than she could bear, she was angry, sad and lost and I knew exactly what I would say... I was thinking about this for six months. I told her that I did love my ex once upon a time and when I met her at my previous home before the sale of the flat, i got carried away, one thing led to another and we had sex. I told her that I realised how broken she must feel to have been cheated like this and understood if she wanted to leave me.

She looked up at me as if I had just committed murder. I knew then that she would not leave me, I decided on damage control and took the offensive. I told her that if she were to forgive me and decide to make things work the subject should never come up again. I told her that I would have to take my ex for doctor appts and will be there to deliver the baby with her. I also told her that I would expect to be an active father, not a dormant one. if she supports all these requests and accepts them whole heartedly, I'll stay, if not then I'll leave her for causing such grief to her but I'll still be there for the both of them. She told me to give her till the end of the day.. I agreed.

We both took urgent leave and stayed at home. She still cooked and served me as before, did her chores and spoke as normal. At about 7pm, she walked up to me as I was watching a show, sat down and snuggled beside me and said that she agreed to the terms and still wanted me no matter what. She ended her sentence with " Everyone deserves a Second Chance"

A Few years down the road, she wanted a kid to call ours and I agreed. The boy is 2 years old now. My ex-wife had a baby girl who is 4 years old now. I spend alot of time with my ex-wife and my daughter and never leave then wanting. My wife and I have a wonderful, trusting relationship and she has never gone back on her word till now. I'm a very lucky guy to have been given a second chance, it's like winning Toto.... Really.

So all you guys out there, always believe in hope and always be prepared.


Vanram

[Pilot Preceda]

Originally Posted by vanram

Hi Bros,

I got a second chance. I was married once before and my sex life was bad. Only had sex once or twice a month and I'm highly sexed. But when we did have sex, it was out of this world, really crazy sex and love making that brings you so high but not enough of it. Didn't have any kids cos the doctor said she had cycts and not able to unless she when for an op. Which means we never used condoms.

Finally, due to the lack of regular sex/love making, we decided to part our ways, divorce. But we still were friends with benefits as she did need the sex once in awhile and I enjoyed the sex with her everytime.

Eventually, I met someone else and got married. My wife is a wonderful person, the sex was good, even BBBJ/CIM and she drinks it all. Very regular, I mean 5 to 6 times a week, I'm serious, she is highly sexed too. Well, being a horny guy who is not satisfied with what he has, I was still having sex with my ex, on the side.

The bad part of this beautiful picture was the guilt. Anyway, nothing good ever lasts. My ex-wife got pregnant and she wanted to keep the baby. She justified that if she could not have me, at least she could have my kid (She does not want to re-marry). I was in a fix, could not ask her to abort cos I wanted the kid too and didn't know how to explain all this to my wife.

After six months of killing myself mentally, I decided to tell my wife. She knew something was wrong by the way I was behaving. But I was too late.. I woke up one morning and found her crying, I looked at her and asked her why and she asked me to tell her the truth. She asked me if my ex-wife was seeing anybody and if she was pregnant, I told her that she wasn't seeing anyone and admitted that she was expecting. She started crying even more before she was able to ask the next question, knowing the answer all too well. "Is she carrying your baby".. I said "yes"...

It was more than she could bear, she was angry, sad and lost and I knew exactly what I would say... I was thinking about this for six months. I told her that I did love my ex once upon a time and when I met her at my previous home before the sale of the flat, i got carried away, one thing led to another and we had sex. I told her that I realised how broken she must feel to have been cheated like this and understood if she wanted to leave me.

She looked up at me as if I had just committed murder. I knew then that she would not leave me, I decided on damage control and took the offensive. I told her that if she were to forgive me and decide to make things work the subject should never come up again. I told her that I would have to take my ex for doctor appts and will be there to deliver the baby with her. I also told her that I would expect to be an active father, not a dormant one. if she supports all these requests and accepts them whole heartedly, I'll stay, if not then I'll leave her for causing such grief to her but I'll still be there for the both of them. She told me to give her till the end of the day.. I agreed.

We both took urgent leave and stayed at home. She still cooked and served me as before, did her chores and spoke as normal. At about 7pm, she walked up to me as I was watching a show, sat down and snuggled beside me and said that she agreed to the terms and still wanted me no matter what. She ended her sentence with " Everyone deserves a Second Chance"

A Few years down the road, she wanted a kid to call ours and I agreed. The boy is 2 years old now. My ex-wife had a baby girl who is 4 years old now. I spend alot of time with my ex-wife and my daughter and never leave then wanting. My wife and I have a wonderful, trusting relationship and she has never gone back on her word till now. I'm a very lucky guy to have been given a second chance, it's like winning Toto.... Really.

So all you guys out there, always believe in hope and always be prepared.


Vanram

ya, agree with you...
your wife is a winning lottery ticket and you're indeed a winner...
please do not harm her anymore...