Does your wife do bj for you [tagged]

TreakSYT · #1 07-01-2011, 08:31 PM

Hi Bro,

My wife just do not want to perform bj on me. I think it is necessary for me to be excited fast and of course shiok lah, when you can be hard then you can perform better and make her shiok. And also, she doesn't seems to be willing to change position and there's no moaning from her. I think this is important as well, because it excites me and maintain my hardness. so now, making love seems not an enjoyable exercise for me anymore. Quite upset about this, is this the kind of sex life I will get for the rest of my life? I am sorry, I am not writing a complain letter, but just want to know if any bros out here facing the same issue as me and manage to change your life or is there any ideas from you guys to resolve this?

fazer6s · #2 07-01-2011, 08:40 PM

Bro

Blowjob is a definite must and me too will return the favour

vanram · #3 07-01-2011, 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by TreakSYT

Hi Bro,

My wife just do not want to perform bj on me. I think it is necessary for me to be excited fast and of course shiok lah, when you can be hard then you can perform better and make her shiok. And also, she doesn't seems to be willing to change position and there's no moaning from her. I think this is important as well, because it excites me and maintain my hardness. so now, making love seems not an enjoyable exercise for me anymore. Quite upset about this, is this the kind of sex life I will get for the rest of my life? I am sorry, I am not writing a complain letter, but just want to know if any bros out here facing the same issue as me and manage to change your life or is there any ideas from you guys to resolve this?

Hi Bro,

You've said that your wife does not go down on you, but it's a 2 way thing, do you go down on her?? I'm sure she will moan if you do it right and then you can move in for a 69 to complete the process..

Just a thought...

Cheers

Vanram

BoLiang · #4 08-01-2011, 12:02 AM

its the willingness to try ba. Some people just dont dare to express themself fully. Perhaps you can start slowly by encouraging her to moan, etc. Dont expect her to know without you saying. They arent mind readers.

Going down on her is a start...

y7u8i9o0 · #5 08-01-2011, 01:24 AM

you are not alone...well, you can try to change her, if not, find pleasure elsewhere before you head home.

I tried but failed many times and gave up.

Red Bull · #6 08-01-2011, 04:33 AM

If you have rented a car for 1 day and the car's air-conditioning does not work, perhaps would you put up with it (instead of exchanging for a properly working car) and still continue to use the car for the rest of the day, since you will be returning it anyway at the end of the day.

But if you have bought a car (instead of renting it for 1 day), and the car's air-conditioning does not work -- what would you do? You would of course ask the manufacturer to repair it or return the car as defective.

Same logic applies here. Ask your wife's parents (the manufacturer) to repair her defect. Or, ask her to repair her own defect. Otherwise, replace her with a non-defective car.

Her refusal to moan (honk) and give your blowjob (air-conditioning) is simply unacceptable.

Blowjob comes standard.

Eddick · #7 08-01-2011, 10:44 AM

Aroused her by licking and sucking her pussy and she will return favor naturally, I've tried and succeeded

remember for the first time don't be rushed, do it lightly and slowly

9dragon · #8 08-01-2011, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Eddick

Aroused her by licking and sucking her pussy and she will return favor naturally, I've tried and succeeded

remember for the first time don't be rushed, do it lightly and slowly

I've been with my wife for 5 yrs...throughout these years, i've tried in vain to suck her pussy, let alone getting a BJ from her..she thinks its unhygienic! I dun get a turn on and making love to her is like making love to a dead corspe..
Remove underwear...
Make pussy wet...
Insert prick...
Cum...
Clean up my "cum"...
No sound no nothing at all!

Woodland777 · #9 08-01-2011, 05:04 PM

you should let her watch more porn, more of those with BBBJ with CIM.

Marlborolights · #10 08-01-2011, 10:34 PM

I can totally understand how TS felt.

This is a true story from a friend of mine.

This friend of mine, whom I knew since 1997, and half of this time he was attached to his present girlfriend, although they are getting married soon. I just pity my friend and felt sorry for his girlfriend that her boyfriend has to "eat out" ALL the time for the past 7 years. Totally no sex, no kissing from her, only hugs on bed. No matter how hard he try, she simply refused and rejected his advancements on the topic of sex, let alone kissing!

I have advice him "Aiyah, just break out la..Complain to me for fuck!" But yet, he simply refused to listen.

I am not an expert but I do have some personal experience to share that I have shared with my friend.

Sex is a must to sustain a relationship, no sex to me, this relationship is just an empty bottle. I am not referring only to male but also female, if sex is important in your relationship, let your partner know and he/she refuses, I mean then there is no wrong in "eat out" when you lifelong partner doesn't want to give you a basic need in a relationship, if sex is just to make babies than I would prefer to walk out from this relationship. Tell him/her right in their faces.

I enjoy a lot with my ex, not because she is pretty or whatsoever, we do communicate in respect of sex issues, she will tell me what she likes and what she don't like and same goes to me. When sometimes, she wants it and I am freaking tired, i will always do a quick one to make her happy. We are still in contact with each other and sometimes we do share our sexprience with our new partners. Of course, both parties must be "open" in this area else the relationship is hard to maintain and for that few years, I save a lot of money because there is no reason for me to "eat out" and I remained faithful to her, so did she, because what I need, she offered to me.

RealEstateGuy · #11 10-01-2011, 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by TreakSYT

Hi Bro,

My wife just do not want to perform bj on me. I think it is necessary for me to be excited fast and of course shiok lah, when you can be hard then you can perform better and make her shiok. And also, she doesn't seems to be willing to change position and there's no moaning from her. I think this is important as well, because it excites me and maintain my hardness. so now, making love seems not an enjoyable exercise for me anymore. Quite upset about this, is this the kind of sex life I will get for the rest of my life? I am sorry, I am not writing a complain letter, but just want to know if any bros out here facing the same issue as me and manage to change your life or is there any ideas from you guys to resolve this?

Firstly I hope you practice proper hygiene. That is a must or I can see how your wife would be grossed out about it. You can break her in using a condom and whipped cream. Once she gets the hang of it and the thrill of licking a lollipop then she will develop slowly but surely a craving for it.

mrgorden · #12 10-01-2011, 02:28 AM

I understand, and you are sadly, not alone. ;(

punkfighter65 · #13 10-01-2011, 12:46 PM

I married for 15 years already. my wife never bj me. as i love to eat pussy i always did it. but since 2 years back i never get to eat pussy anymore. want to eat pros pussy very scared. Now very addicted already

coper99 · #14 10-01-2011, 12:49 PM

i tel them,, if u dun do it,,somebody else wil hv 2 do it on behalf 4 u,.. n it works 4 me..

RealEstateGuy · #15 10-01-2011, 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by punkfighter65

I married for 15 years already. my wife never bj me. as i love to eat pussy i always did it. but since 2 years back i never get to eat pussy anymore. want to eat pros pussy very scared. Now very addicted already

You should be scared. Why not just go to the local hospital and ask for a bowl of herpes or HIV and feast on that instead.